im 16. im a male who wants to be female. ive confessed to parents recently. i want a way to ease into simply crossdressing out in public, some advice on make up for i know nothing. im sorry im nowhere close to professional. please you have no idea how much i need help, my life isnt good. thank you.
2006-07-19 10:29:36 · 10 answers · asked by sydneyvision1990 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are easing into it for yourself, go slow. Try wearing some good powder on your face and some tinted matte lip gloss.
Let your fem side show gradually. As you build confidence add some eye make-up, maybe started with some mascera, building to full eye shadow, eye liner and mascera.
As you do this you can also begin to dress more fem and let your fem mannerisms show a little more.
Only do what you are comfortable with.
Good luck sweetie.
2006-07-19 12:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by pammy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh, how I wish I had the Internet when I was 16! When I was your age, I felt like I was the only person in the world who felt this way. I would have loved to go on line and discover I was not alone. Make the most of it, dear. You're young and probably can pass right now without too much trouble. Explore your femininity while you are still young enough to enjoy it. Not to say that I don't enjoy mine now, but I wish I had started so much sooner and had sympathetic friends to help me along the way. I say burn up all your points on yahoo answers and learn as much as you can. Ask as many questions as possible and ignore the mean little snots who just don't get it. You may discover that crossdressing satisfies you or that you need to do something more, but whatever it is, do it now! Don't wait, you will regret it.
2006-07-19 19:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I did when I was your age I went and brought panties, a bra , and falsies i tried different cup sizes.
Went out of the neighborhood that I live in and just walked around a bit watching other women my own age walk, talk, siting with one leg under themselves, how they ate, why did they giggle?
When u go into the women room remember u must sit down and point down to pee no standing up and lifting the lid.
Look at the magazines that teach you to wear makeup and try some out. Don't forget to purchase make up remover.
Never ever go to school wearing a bra unless you have friends that will stick up for you and be by your side. Boys and girls will beat you up because of the life style u want too lead.
I buy a lot of stuff on-line, or through catalogs. You can always buy and outfit from a store and take it home to try it on make sure that you understand there return policy.
Try going to a club in just jeans for a girl and a top try wearing a 1 - 3 inch heel open toe is better then closed and see what happens. See who will flirt with you. Buy yourself a GAFF.
Hope this helps you out.
2006-07-20 09:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by realdream1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less is more. Of course, get the boobs, however you do it, and a girdle, for the curves, but don't go overboard. Don't go for the sexy skirt and sheer hose, heels, unless you're sure you can pull it off (maybe you can). Overdressing will 80% of the time get you read (and not in a good way) almost instantly. On the other hand, if you want an experiment, try answering a want ad as a woman. Set an interview, and go in as the woman (skirt, hose,heels, etc) you think they want to see. Just be confident. All fails, you can explain that it is a newspaper assignment or psych experiment. If you succeed, you have a job offer that you can politely turn down, or reject if you think you have what it takes. Just be careful.
2006-07-19 18:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by girliegirlalltheway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, there's no easy way to ease into crossdressing because even after all the makeup, if someone in public finds out they are not going to be very kind to you, but if you need help with makeup there are classes on how to wear makeup.
2006-07-19 18:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of good advice already.
Take it slowly. Get yourself a psychotherapist (you'll need one if you want SRS and hormones). Use the internet to find out more.
The Transsexual roadmap tells you about the many different steps, COGIATI offers you an online test to evalue yourself and feelings, SAGE is another of these. Don't forget to laugh. And don't get involved with Willow Arune, Jennifer Usher or any other of the ***** queens who hang around on usenet.
Regards
Augusta
2006-07-19 20:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a CD support organiztin like Tri-ESS. Do a web search using Society for the Second Self they can give you some good information and prehaps reccomend a group in your area.
Good luck
2006-07-20 09:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go prancing in the supermarket looking like drag queen.
Check and see what other women are wearing and copy them.
It's the best form of flattering and you stand out like a sore thump.
Talk with the girls they are alot more accepting and probably will help you make your fem self.
2006-07-20 22:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. Ask a girl or a crossdresser what to do.
2006-07-19 17:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a boy
learn to be a man
read bible
2006-07-19 18:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋