OK, so I am getting to be CLOSE friends with a girl next door staying with her grandparents and we have really flirted and even kissed and things and been really close. We have talked about things like you wouldn't believe. Anyway, we were talking about the opposite sex the other day and she said that she has always been fascinated with a guy's ......... when it is .......... She actually said this with what looked like kind of a smile. The thing that is different is she is what you would call a "nice girl" but we have gotten really close and I get this vibe that she wants us to explore things and especially that she wants me to get .......... and touch or something. She is so nice that I think she expects me to initiate this and I am at full salute half the time we are together anyway LOL... I am confused about it though cuz she is so nice and I have always been told that girls are scared of a guys ........ (especially when it is at full salute).
2006-07-19 10:05:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Ok If you are over 18 this applies to you, if not then dont do it! Talk first. I dont know how many people have just jumped in and followed their hormones and then regretted it later or worse didnt talk about the consequences. So, talk first see what she thinks. If you try to put a move on her you may lose her as a friend or the opportunity for more if that is not what she wants. If you ask her politely and sweetly you have a much better chance. If she wants to move things forward she will let you know. Her fascination is normal, but it doesnt mean she wants to go all the way. Take baby steps and dont do anything unless you are both ready. But to be even more honest...you dont know if you are really ready usually until you have done it and realized you werent...thats why its awesome to wait until marriage everything will be settled and not scary. I am not telling you what to do, just suggesting. Hope the best. And PS if she is a "nice girl" do you want to take that away? Be careful and think first!
2006-07-19 10:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit, I'm a man, but I had to comment on this. Girls that are both nice AND like sex are the best girls of all. If you don't want her, then let me take her off your hands.
2006-07-19 11:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she does like you and is waiting for you to make your move. If you are still unsure, talk some more with her. Even "nice girls" have a "bad" streak in them. lol
2006-07-19 10:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like that girl try to get more closer to her and ask her what she think about you. i think you guys like each other cause you had kissed already
2006-07-19 10:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by karinazyvora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's giving you the hint.
2006-07-19 10:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think missesbean is right.
2006-07-19 10:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by smartbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to bang bang bang.....but listen to ur brian...upstairs...not the one below the waist ;]
2006-07-19 10:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋