OK, so I am getting to be CLOSE friends with a girl next door staying with her grandparents and we have really flirted and even kissed and things and been really close. We have talked about things like you wouldn't believe. Anyway, we were talking about the opposite sex the other day and she said that she has always been fascinated with a guy's ......... when it is .......... She actually said this with what looked like kind of a smile. The thing that is different is she is what you would call a "nice girl" but we have gotten really close and I get this vibe that she wants us to explore things and especially that she wants me to get .......... and touch or something. She is so nice that I think she expects me to initiate this and I am at full salute half the time we are together anyway LOL... I am confused about it though cuz she is so nice and I have always been told that girls are scared of a guys ........ (especially when it is at full salute).
2006-07-19 10:05:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'd say that if you are younger than 17, don't have sex. And you definately want to get to know a person (longer than 4 months) before you begin getting intimate in any way. "Nice girls" are ones to watch out for. LOL! I think any girl is fascinated by a *****, especially when it's ****. Anyway, if you're not ready to let her touch, then don't. If she's so nice, then talk to her about what you're feeling. . .especially if she mentions it again. If she's quiet and not really saying much, she's also probably thinking about it, but doesn't want to say anything. That's what girls do. . .beat around the point. Best thing to do. . .talk to her. Yes, if it's her first time seeing a *****, she's gonna be a little timid.
2006-07-19 10:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she talked about it and said that she's "fascinated" with it then I'm sure if you make a move she'll be ok with it. Start slow, ease into the weewee area don't just grab her hand and place it on your weewee, start kissing her, get into the mood then caress her and see if she goes there before you.
It sounds like she likes you so don't be nervous or scared. Hey wait a minute, how old are you?
2006-07-19 17:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she obviously is attracted to you because you have kissed and she still hangs out with you. despite the fact that you think she is what you call a "nice girl" she is comfortable enough with you to tell you that she is facinated with a guy's ....... next time she says something about it ask her what she means and then tell her if she's that interested then you would show her...or you can just suck it up and tell her how you feel and stop worrying about her reputation as a "nice girl" because she doesn't have to be a skank to want to move on to 3rd base.
2006-07-19 18:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by whoami? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girls aren't really "scared" of it. But it might not be wise to go full speed ahead, just in case she doesn't like aggressive guys. Just because she wants you (which she probably does) doesn't mean you can just go for it, because maybe she'd be turned off by that. Who knows, maybe she likes you because you haven't done that? But that's just one possibility. There are plenty of girls who are different than that. In any case, I agree with the other person that you should be her boyfriend first.
2006-07-19 17:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Christine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you really like this girl and wouldn't mind making her your girlfriend. You first need to tell her how you feel before you go any further in order to keep from being hurt. Secondly girls like sex and we are not afraid of lets just say "your little big friend". She is trying to let you know she wants your bod so give it up. She will be happy once you do.
2006-07-19 17:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...HOW OLD ARE YOU? Don't do something stupid!! I know you are curious but stop before you get something started that you both could live to regret!!!! I really doubt that you would care for the sound of a crying baby at 2:00 in the morning!!!!
2006-07-19 17:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by dragonlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't afraid of it. Some can be a bit prudish, but not scared. I actually think it's kind of funny-looking.
2006-07-19 17:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by saintmeghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Next time she mentions something like that, sort of lightly suggest that you show her and if she really does want to see, she'll agree.
2006-07-19 17:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready then just say what's on your mind. And if she gets mad and puffs up like a toad (srry, my dads sayings lol :p)
then that means she's not liking you for "you" but she's liking you for sex. think about it.....oki times up. now u get it? good. an if u do have "some fun" be safe! ;)
2006-07-19 17:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by \,,\ {>.<} /,,/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So to me it seems shes a little naughty and that's cool only if you like it. i suggest that you not let the nicness fool you but whatever floats your boat i'm not gonna judge it. If you wanna hold her, please her, then you gotta gotta try a little tenderness. Chicks luv that romantic stuff!hah hah haah. Wait are you a girl or a boy . uh lezbo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-19 17:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~A'Mya~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋