i currently have a boyfriend/fiance (he is confused about what he wants) but my ex who was my first and was my first love too is back in the picture
i love them both i no is that even possible
i really want my ex because when i was with him i wa salways happy buut when he dropped me i was devastated will it happen again?
but i just found out i am pregnant by my current boyfriend he is only staying with me now because of that and he says he will marry me for sure now because of it he doesnt really show that he cares any more and we always fight
is it possible to fall out of love with him? and who should i choose
and my ex knows about me being PG and he doesnt care he said that he would be there for me if i needed him to be
2006-07-19 09:56:32 · 9 answers · asked by so-lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dam where are all these girls that stay with there guy even if they dump them bad...look it seam that you dont really love ethier, you need to find your self first before you make a choice
And how do you know he wont leave again, or the new b/f????
stand on your own for now........
2006-07-19 10:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds complicated. If your current bf is staying with you coz of the child, do you think you will live happily in future? You have to consider this carefully. Only you know this better than me.
As for your ex bf, he mentioned he doesn't care you being pregnant and he will standby you if you need him. How well does you understand him? Will he bother the fact that the child is not his own blood and flesh? Will he breakup with you in future again? Don't rush into a decision that will be another bigger mistake in future. Remember "two wrong does not equal to one right" so think carefully what is your next step.
2006-07-19 21:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break up once and then get back together, it's really only a matter of time before you break up again. Both these guys sound like people who don't deserve to be in your life. I'm sure there is a wonderful Guy #3 out there waiting to enter the picture!
2006-07-19 17:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by silver11016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer this question... you have to decide why you want to be with either of them. I hope you can make the right decision for you and your baby, but staying with the baby's father is not a necessity. it sounds like you want to be with your ex, but you need stability in your life if you are going to be responsible for a child. good luck, i hope things work out for you!
2006-07-19 17:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to find out who your heart truly belongs to. No one eles can tell you who to love it's your life not ours. i don't know eather of these men so find out who you would rather be with if you really don't know and theres nothing then what are you doing with your life?? You'll make the right choice i'm sure just be honest with yourself and your ex and current bf.
2006-07-19 17:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,but are you wanting this child ,you think that he will hurt you and the child I am talking about the current then you need to get out.If the ex is willing to help take responsibility for someone Else's child then I say go for it.
2006-07-19 17:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by vick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you think your current bf is confused......uh, um...and you're not?
In my opinion this would be considered double trouble twice!
Take a break from both of them.
Concentrate on you and your baby.
2006-07-19 17:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to have to be your decision. If you go with your ex your b/f wont be to happy about paying child support.....
2006-07-19 17:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Is the child wanted? If not,seek help for your package.
2006-07-19 17:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by bigblockburb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋