Well on the internet me and my est friend got into this big argument and no where not best friends, but I kind of miss being her friend and talking to her. I mean we where always there for each other and now where not. My sister called her and she ended telling my sister that she doesn't want to be my friend it's better that way but then her cousin (my friend also) said that she misses me what should i ido call her or forget about it and get a new friend?
2006-07-19 09:38:59 · 38 answers · asked by Charissa H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Call. Ok here's the thing, you can loose a good friend over something stupid or you can try to make things better.
I, all too many times, have been a moron and ruined good friendships over pride. (In fact, I almost did it the other day.)
Just let it go and call her. Tell her how you feel. If she acts like a *****, then at least you tried.
Like I learned this week, it's hard to make the first move, but you'll be glad you did.
Good Luck!
2006-07-19 09:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying sorry for whatever the argument was about. Also try getting together with her. Let her knwo that you stil like her. Here tell her this. Its kinda apoem I guess but its from my info. It is " you get into the biggest fights with the friends that are worth fighting for" so try to get her forgivness if she stil doesnt forgive you then she has changed and moved on. Try to find someone else in the school to hang out with. Try some sports maybe out of school and find a friend. Still be nice to her, get her christmas gifts and smile when she passes by adn try to drop some extra sorry hints. Good luck!
2006-07-19 09:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships are for life. There will always be differences in opinions because you are individuals. But if you miss her, try calling her. It may just be that "pride" thing that has her saying that she doesn't want to talk to you. Someone has to make the first move and why not you? You may be missing out on a wonderful relationship by being stubborn and waiting on her to make the first move.
2006-07-19 09:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by MsET 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her cousin may be trying to get you two back together. Personally, I would give it some more time and try to make contact again. If she says that she does not want to be friends anymore, I'd leave it alone. People allow various things to come between them all the time and sometimes we just don't have any control over it when someone wants to terminate a friendship. It hurts, but it's survivable.
2006-07-19 09:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my friends get in fights all the time and it's natural to have an argument. If you really miss your friend and she really misses you then what ever it was that you two said about each other wasn't true and you should get over it.
2006-07-19 09:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you im her and try to work it out or email her. just make sure you apologize if you did something wrong, and if it was her that did something wrong, then don't blame her, just tell her that what she did hurt you. blame the action, not the person. she probably told your sister that because she knew she would tell you.
friends are very important to have in this world, you don't want to lose a good one. just ask yourself--is this friend worth the trouble? does she make your life better, more enjoyable? if so, try to find a way back.
2006-07-19 09:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the bigger person and call her. We as friends go through stuff but we cant stay mad long because long story short we are friends and we love each other. We might disagree but eventually we will get over it. You miss her, so call her.
2006-07-19 09:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by SWEETJUNE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can still talk to her. Throwing people away isn't an option, so what if she disappointed you a little. Did she insult your mother?Disparage your children?Sleep with your man? You had a little argument like girlfriends do. Maybe she isn't the "best friend" you thought she was, but it doesn't mean you have to disown her.
2006-07-19 09:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Advice:
YOU TWO Need to GROW UP: Forget that crap you here Blood is thicker than water. Friends are Friends forever. We have to be connected to our family, but we choose our friends, sure they hurt us, and we hurt them. We fight them, lie to them, sometimes feel like we hate them, but once we love them, we can love them for life. We don't tell our family members our most darkest secrets, but our close friends know them, we don't tell our family members about the guys we slept with, but how many times have we told our best friends. Come on, cry, slap, and nap it out. GET Over it. YOU Guys are FRIENDS. Call Her.
2006-07-19 09:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always great to try to keep friendships alive. Talk to her and tell her you miss being her friend. If she can't forgive you, then move on because you wouldn't want a friend who can't forgive anyhow.
2006-07-19 09:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋