my boyfriend and I are 22, been together a little over a year and half.....we see each other like three times a week. We have kids. He always wants sex...and I am tired because that is all he bitches about all the time...well why dont you go down, why cant we do anal more often, blah blah blah...but when we do do something he is NEVER fully satisified...he always complains, it was not long enogh or he did not actually orgasam even though he cam...
WHAT the hell...I am tired of trying if it is never going to be good enough.
2006-07-19 09:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we have done freaky things.....toys, photo shoots, whatever--I used to do EVERYthing (well except for bringing in other people), but then he started saying he wasnt satisfied, and that we did not do it enough...blah blah......
2006-07-19 09:38:11 · update #1
My suggestion is to seek a therapist with your boyfriend. Maybe even a sex therapist. The thing to remember is, neither one of you is right. If you start thinking YOU'RE right, and he thinks HE is right, you're not going to resolve this. I can't begin to assume I know either one of you or your pasts from this short question. Mayb one of you or both has some specific issues with sex that are not being met.
My first piece of advice would be sit down with him and try to talk it out, if that doesn't get anywhere (and maybe even if it DOES get somewhere) it's a good idea to seek some professional advice.
Good luck, I hope this helps.
2006-07-19 09:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the you need to sit him down and say "well honey, this is as good as its going to get and if it isnt enough for you then you need to go out there and find someone who can give you what u need." tell him that if he really is in love with you, he will take you as you are and not want to make changes to you. he has to except that this is just who you are and tehre is nothing he can do except leave. and if he does want to leave, then he is a physco because there are many more important things than sex.
2006-07-19 16:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by efraevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a males sex drive is at it's highest from about 18 to 26
afemales is from about 25 to 35
you nedd to sit down and atlk openly about the situation and come too a happy middle grounds for both of you.
if you dont or cant pleas him then let it go cause it will destroy you as a woman
a relationship is compromise of everything
2006-07-19 16:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by oldschool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stick his dick in a pop bottle! Why do you put up with this? What does he do all day? NOTHING!? Tell him to get a job, and we will see if he is tired or not! You don't HAVE to do it just to make him happy! You don't have to do it at all. Do what YOU want to do for a change. Tell him to find someone else if he's not happy. And then, let him find someone else. He will end up doing her the same way. Get on with your life, cause he is verbally abusing you and trying to make you feel bad. Is this what you WANT?
2006-07-19 16:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two living together? If you are, move out and quit shacking up. You are good enough to have his kids, but you are not good enough for him to marry? Move out. Stop committing fornication. You can do bad all by yourself.
2006-07-19 16:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never change because you continue to put out
2006-07-19 16:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go have sex with himself if he is so unsatisfied... there is more to life than just sex and if he complains about not getting it then complains about it when he does get it, he doesn't appreciate you and you deserve better than that.
2006-07-19 16:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the picky *** prick if he's not satisfied.
2006-07-19 16:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my wife.
You need to learn to release your inner whore!!!!!
2006-07-19 16:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a break
2006-07-19 16:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by sgurbir2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋