I want to get something VERY nice of course but I'd like to avoid getting ripped off. I know nothing about jewelry (its a miracle she's stuck with me)
2006-07-19 09:30:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't go to a jewelry store chain. Take her mom/sister/best friend with. They should know what she likes. I'd suggest you not pick a ring by how big the diamond looks but by how the quality of it is. Once you buy it, get a "plot" (a plot shows any imperfections that can be seen under a microscope) of the ring BEFORE YOU LEAVE THE STORE, and have them show you it too.
You might want to try an antique dealer for a nice vintage ring. It all depends on her style.
2006-07-19 09:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is educate yourself. Spend some time on the internet and know what to look for. The more you know, the less likely you'll get ripped off or end up with a bad ring. If there is anyone you know that knows anything about jewelry or has bought a ring in the past, ask them for help or to come with you. Also, see if you can ask a close friend of hers for any suggestions on what she likes if you don't know what shape or cut to get. Remember, she has to look at this ring for the rest of her life so she should LOVE it. And last, to avoid any problems, only go to reputable jewelers.
2006-07-19 16:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Pumpkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a reputable jeweler. Most rings come with a certification card that rates color and clarity of the diamond. The jeweler will explain the differences to you. You may need to shop a few jewelers before you buy. Also you may want to consider having her help pick it out? Just a thought.
2006-07-19 16:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.jewelrytelevision.com
best, most affordable stuff around. And see if she wants to choose her own ring. You could get her a birthstone or her favorite stone if she doesn't want a diamond. Just make sure it's something hard enough to weather the years.
If you want to surprise her with a gift when you propose, you could give her a necklace or something, and then go pick out the ring after that.
2006-07-19 16:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by MornGloryHM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shop around. If we hadn't gone to more than one place, we would have been ripped off. Also, stick to your budget, don't let them talk you into a ring you can't afford. And finally, be sure you are 100% happy with your purchase, don't let them pick a ring for you they say is "trendy" or something.
2006-07-19 16:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can take her with you. If you are planning on surprising her that is great too. take her friend or mother to make sure that you are not getting ripped off and that you are getting the ring of her dreams. Marriage is suppose to be forever, start it right. good luck and many happy years to you both congratulations.
2006-07-19 16:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good idea is to propose and then take her to a jewelry store so she can pick it out. Not only are you assured she'll like it, but it's so romantic!
2006-07-19 16:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have her pick it out with you. That's what me and my husband did. I picked it out and then I told him that when the time was right for him, he could pop the question. If she has to wear it for life, she should be the one to pick it out.
Jewelry is ALWAYS negotiable. No matter what the sales staff tells you. If they refuse to bargain with you, maybe you should look elsewhere. Also, stay away from the mall.
2006-07-19 16:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by happymommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with someone who is older and a shrewd shopper who knows jewellery... and avoid the malls!
2006-07-19 16:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a store
2006-07-19 16:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by beantown10955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋