Say she found out her sis died what should i do?
2006-07-19 08:55:51 · 19 answers · asked by sean_the_curious 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Just be there for her...be close by, at hand whenever she may need you. Take over some of her duties, if possible, cleaning, cooking, watching after younger siblings, whatever it may be. Hug her and let her know you are there for her. Pray for her!
2006-07-19 08:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by amomentssunlight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to make the pain go away. That will have to happen all by itself, and in it's own good time. All you CAN do is be there for her. Let her talk about her sister, even if the tells the same stories over and over. Let her cry on your shoulder. Give her lots of hugs, and help her in any way you can, even if it means doing extra chores.
I know it's hard to see your mom cry. She's probably always been your strength. But she IS only human after all, and she will have to grieve this loss on her own. Just be extra sweet and supportive, and let her lean on you for awhile.
2006-07-19 16:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby there really is nothing you can do ... not to take her pain away that is. Losing a loved one is VERY very hard... it can be emotionally and physically taxing on one. However, now she needs you ... needs your support, your love, understanding, respect.... she needs time. I know she is grieving, doesn't want to go anywhere do anything.. moping around. Maybe now is not the time for you to drag her through the streets.. but perhaps... take a picnic lunch to her.. do her nails, hair, take her to the salon....... Just sit there in silence with her... and when she starts to cry.... be that shoulder she can lean on.
you love her... she loves you..... comfort each other... by you offering her comfort and her receiving it...you will in turn feel better because you have helped your mother.
Peace and Blessings love... prayers are with you!
2006-07-19 16:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your job to make your mom happy and it is okay for her to feel sad about losing her sister. You can let her know you care about her (which you obviously do) and ask her if she would like a hug. What are you doing to take care of yourself?
Jeanette
2006-07-19 17:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanette K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her hugs and tell her you love her. She will be sad for a while, that's a part of life allow her to be sad and let her know you understand. You can't fix it and you aren't supposed to. Just be sweet.
2006-07-19 15:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean up the place for her and make her some food. Stay with her and talk when she needs you to but most all be there to listen and give her a hug and kiss when needed.
2006-07-19 15:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is suffring now cuz she has lost someone who was from the same blood as she is ,,, the only thing that you can do is to be next to her and talk to her . let her talk and even let her cry if she wants because it'll make her more relax and comfortable ,,, talk about that now she is in a goodplace(her sister) and she is looking at her and sheis near god! she is happy and no more suffring but we have to live our lives to be best! because at last we'll go to the same place...
2006-07-19 16:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by bernadet_lmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, let her know you are there if she needs to talk, needs help with something or just needs someone to see her through it (i.e. bring her a drink, tissue, etc.) The presence of a loved one is comfort enough in bad times, that is all she really needs.
2006-07-19 15:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and make her a card or give her flowers and take her out for dinner and a movie or make her a home cooked meal!
2006-07-19 15:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by JulieBug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug her. listen to her. If she doesn't want to talk, sit with her. Love her. She will feel it. Let her show you old photos and babble about the old days. It takes time.
2006-07-19 17:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋