I feel like I want sex more than he does. It seems like he has almost given up. I don't want to lose my viginity. But I want sex really bad. Not anal though. What do I do?
2006-07-19 08:44:30 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
me nd mi bf r in te same boat rite now
2006-07-19 08:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by got questions?. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FYI anal sex is sex dear however you need not to give in to temptation because that's all it is. if you are fighting the urge then there is a good reason why which you are not telling us. I think that reason is very precious and you should stick by that becasue if you dont, chances are you will regret it. I think virginity is very precious and if you ask most people they will tell you that they wished they would have waited. You are very lucky and you are very special. It's normal to feel the way that you do but you have to decide if it's worth it right now and if its what you really want. You need to think about and be prepared for the consequences that come with it, as well as the pro's. It's your decision sweety but i will say don't let temptation be the determining factor.
2006-07-19 08:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23 years old. I remember being young like you(not that I'm old) and wanting to have sex too. But I learned the hard way that I should have waited for the right guy. I dated this guy for 9 months, and we always had sex. I made the mistake of not knowing anything about him-just that he was hot. When we broke up I noticed that he had given me an STD, genital warts. Thankfully, I was able to get the warts removed. But I didn't even think about STDs when we were having sex. All I thought about was,"if I take my pills, I won't get pregnant." I encourage you to not rush into sex. Yes, it is a very great thing, but is meant to be shared with someone who will really love you, and not just love what you look like on the outside. Please wait and don't make the foolish mistake I made so long ago.
2006-07-19 09:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by save_me_now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a job, are emotionally and intellectually stable and mature to handle any circumstances (such as a pregnancy, a breakup and losing your virginity), and have discussed all the options of safe sex, plus have had AIDS and STD tests performed, then my answer is NO.
Young people nowadays think sex is just something mundane, like brushing their teeth or washing their hair. There's a lot of risks and consequences involved if you DO NOT use your head. If half of the population in the world stopped for a minute to think of the above things, I bet it would eradicate a huge percentage of unwanted pregnancies, neglected and ignorant children and child abuse.
So my advice, DON'T BE STUPID!
2006-07-19 09:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
1. Am I ready to risk a pregnancy (there is NOT 100% safe sex- - it doesn't exist)?
2. Am I willing to give up the ONE and ONLY thing I can give my future husband that no one else can give him (your virginity)?
3. Am I willing to give up my credibility and reputation?
4. Am I willing to live with the guilt that I will create for me and him by giving in?
5. Am I willing to get caught?
6. Am I willing to change my standards for a short amount of questionable pleasure?
7. Am I willing to give up my boyfriend after sex? (there is a good possibility that he will give you up for giving in)
8. Am I emotionally, psychologically, and financially ready for a child if I do get pregnant.
9. Is my boyfriend ready to be a father if. . .?
Answer those questions and you will have your answer.
2006-07-19 09:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have sex because it's A) illegal (unless you're 18), and B) immoral (because you aren't married). Do the right thing and hopefully some of the idiots on the teen question page will follow your example.
2006-07-19 10:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by 2 'til Midnight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...okay look if u want it then do it if u don't then don't because if u wanna do it ur gonna do it rather a whole bunch of strangers tell u to or not. if u want it then go for it. that's up to u a stranger can't tell u what to do. and sex is serious so u should decide on ur own.
and there's plenty of other stuff u can do try oral sex or he can touch u whatever but do what u want.
2006-07-19 08:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you ready to make that decision and be responsible for the actions? Wait until you are married to lose you virginity or until you aren't questioning it. And always use protection, be safe and good luck.
2006-07-19 08:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to lose your virginity, than don't have sex. If you really want to have sex so bad, you need to decide if this guy is the one you want to lose your virginity to. Only have sex when you are ready for it.
2006-07-19 09:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some of the other questions regarding "Am I pregnant? What if I am pregnant?" here. Think of how a baby would absolutely change your life. If you are questioning it, DO NOT GO TO BED. There are other ways to show love that are not so dangerous.
2006-07-19 09:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by M B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other things youi can do for each other that will please you sexually other than giving up your virginity! You can always touch and feel. Or you can have oral sex. This is still holding on to your vu=irginity and u both are pleased and fulfilled sexually! Good luck to u
2006-07-19 08:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋