how to improve them...I'm loosing confidene, help
2006-07-19 08:21:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK, SPELLING MISTAKE ON THE 'HER'
2006-07-19 08:25:47 · update #1
I'm sure he doesn't mind, but every guy is going to fantasize about a woman with huge breasts. But he did marry you for who you are, so it doesn't play a deciding factor in your relationship. You shouldn't have to try and improve your body just to make your husband happy. You need to feel confident in your own skin. Implants are ridiculous. Not only are they fake, but they LOOK fake. When you go out in public sure you'll get stares from guys but you'll also get stares of disgust from a lot of people as well. There is nothing wrong with not having huge boobs. Be true to yourself. Flaunt what you have, and just remember he loves you for who you are. That's all that matters.
2006-07-19 08:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello wen,
Some guys are not into boobs, or, at least, not into big boobs. There's a lot of us leg and *** men running around. Perhaps that's what your husband is too. Accentuate the positive. And he'll love you all the more. Don't sweat having small breasts.
Yes, some guys like to look, but that's doesn't have anything to do with you. Enjoy.
--Rick
2006-07-19 08:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's also a pedicure. He treats his own athletes feet tho. Also there was a couple of times I popped a zit on his back that he couldn't reach. Ugh! Gross! I love him tho and I know everything I do or ask him to do ain't so pretty either. Oh and an unspoken in the bedroom.
2016-03-16 02:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he marry you if he's more concern about your boobs more? Trust him. He can chose to dump you in the 1st place and get hooked with some bigger boobs gals right? So? Don't lose your confidence as this will affect your relationship with him and that might make him ran away and really shows he mind. Just be yourself.
2006-07-19 14:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, it doesn't bother him because he proposed and, he's your husband!! Leave yourself alone! Be happy with what God blessed you with. Don't loose your confidence, you have a husband that loves you for what you have and who you are, that's a boost of confidence right there, there are very few women who can say that including me! I have big breasts and it's not all that it cracks up to be. Sometimes they get in the way, I can't where all the shirts I like, It's pure HELL trying to find a bathing suit, getting a small bottom and a 1x top! So just calm down and be thankful for what you have and flaunt what you got!
2006-07-19 08:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Karmie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? Did you marry him for love or on a whim?
If you have been married for a while for love, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
BTW Smaller boobs don't get in the way, weigh you down, keep you from running, jumping , etc. Please be happy with what God gave you by being the best YOU you can be.
2006-07-19 09:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's happy, then you shouldn't be worried...and yes you should believe him. He didn't marry you for your chest..he married you for all of YOU.
There's also an old saying for that:
"Anything more than a mouthful is too much" ;-)
So stop worrying...you're fine just the way you are.
2006-07-19 08:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMAN, GET OVER IT ALREADY! He's told you he doesn't mind. I think you mind it more than him. Plus, boobs aren't everything, you know, unless your brain is proportionate to the size of your chest (which I think it is).
2006-07-19 08:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, surgery is bad. If he married you with the boobs you have, he must be happy with them. Don't let the media dictate how you see yourself and think what you should look like. Alot of men prefer an athletic figure (slim with smaller boobs) I have big ones, and trust me they're not all they're cracked up to be. (heavy hot sweaty fat bags, really) love yourself the way you are.
2006-07-19 08:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you and your puny boobs didn't he? That should be confidence enough.
I wouldn't agonize over it unless you plan on getting breast enhancement surgery. Otherwise you'll just keep yourself all upset over nothing.
2006-07-19 08:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by C R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋