ive never had a virgin in bed. but i think im about to have one. what should i do to make it "ok" for her?
2006-07-19 08:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by mikee g 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Wow! That's really sweet and awesome that you care enough to ask that question.
I can give you an honest answer, but you probably won't like it.
If you don't care about her, don't sleep with her. You don't want to be the biggest mistake of her life.
If you do care about her, you will encourage her to wait until she's married (either to you or someone else).
If she sleeps with anyone outside of marriage, no matter how good it is, she will not be okay. She and her spouse (even if it is you) will both regret the fact that she didn't wait.
I'm not saying this to be ugly or judgemental, or anything like that. I'm saying it because I've personally waited for my husband and it is one of the greatest things in the world, in so many ways. I've been married for years, and that fact still makes it wonderful for both of us as the years go by. It's a lifetime thing and it is more than worth the wait. I dont' want to get too personal, but it's very sad for anyone who has to miss out on this wonderful experience.
I would even go so far as to say it would be worth it to you (if you love her) to keep her, and keep her a virgin just so that you can marry a virgin, you certainly would not regret it! (My husband could tell you the same thing).
On the other hand if that's too much for you to handle, and you can't wait, there are plenty of sexually active and willing people out there. But if you are man enough to handle it, you will be very much rewarded. ;)
In this case the saying Is true "Good things come to those who wait."
Best of luck.
2006-07-19 09:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHOAAA! I hope that you love this girl and intend on treating her right. First of all who's idea is this anyway? If its her idea and she hasn't been coerced by the' oh, I but I Love you sooo much I'll always be with you' stuff I would be very surprised. How young is she?
2006-07-19 08:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie1970 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you "handle" her the way you would want some guy to "handle" your future spouse! The bible tells us to treat women other than our wives as sisters. Give her and her future husband the respect they deserve.
Wise up and live right.
2006-07-19 08:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just go slow, make it enjoyable, and dont go to rough... and start with oral, that **** rules and will have her eating out of your hand before you even get inside
2006-07-19 08:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Beckwith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a sick pervert and you should wait till ur merried and virgins are hard to come by
2006-07-19 08:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by R.J. 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
first do you care about her? because if you don't .don't tack that from her. if you care about her just wait to be sure if she ready to go through with it .and be care for not to her her and be more caring about it in make sure your ready to do this.
2006-07-19 08:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by sheena w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont!!! stay away! Virgins are special! poor girl........
2006-07-19 08:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by KeLs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hold her down hit it and bust it then split before she falls in love then dot return her calls and spread a rumor about her like one tit is bigger than the other or she has a hairry @$$
2006-07-19 08:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
don't rush. Make sure she's comfortable at all times.
2006-07-19 08:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by ImCuteAndSoAreYou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let he contiune to be a virgin...respect her if she is not your wife.
2006-07-19 08:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Commander 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋