My friend is in love with a girl he met once at a college newspaper conference and then he kept emailing her and chatting on AIM, as of today it has been 1 year since they last communicating and he still says he loves her and he has told her about this love(probaly freaking her out and driving her away). I think he is infatuated because prior to that he had no contact with any girl or any girl ever showed interested in him.
Just to give you an idea of his background:
-21 yrs old living with parents
-Never even kissed a girl
-home schooled, i was his first friend ever in college
-believes earth is 5000 years old and believes in noah
-hardcore gamer, chess geek and newspaper editor
How do I show reality to this guy?
2006-07-19 08:16:51 · 18 answers · asked by wb 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Oh my gosh...lol lol.The description =))
Anyway you should probably give out the cold hard fact.He is a guy after,all and he will understand.And obviously he is infatuated.Even after a year of her leaving him,still he loves her.Oh gosh!Anyway the only way is to give him the truth.
Good luck.:))
2006-07-19 08:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
-21 years old living with parents: HE's FRUGAL
-Never even kissed a girl: HE's PURE
-home-schooled: HE's INTELLIGENT
-believes earth is 6,000 years old: HE's DISCERNING
-hardcore gamer: HE's a GEEK
and to your first question: He's infatuated with a girl and you can't reason with infatuation, so forget about it. Look in the mirror and consider how clueless you might be, my friend.
Peace.
2006-07-19 08:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-21 years previous living with mum and dad: he's FRUGAL -not in any respect even kissed a woman: he's organic and organic -abode-schooled: he's sensible -believes earth is 6,000 years previous: he's DISCERNING -hardcore gamer: he's a GEEK and on your first question: he's infatuated with a woman and also you'll't reason with infatuation, so overlook about about it. look interior the replicate and image about how clueless you ought to probably be, my chum. Peace.
2016-10-14 23:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't tell friends that they are clueless. Friends get friends drunk and laid by a hooker. It will give him confidence and perhaps get him to look past this girl. The bad news is, he will probably fall in love with the hooker and spend all his money on tricks....but he won't be clueless anymore.
2006-07-19 08:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by anysomeone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is he was home schooled. home schooles students don't learn how to socialize at the time they need to. So it's difficult for him to realize infatuation. but you should just tell him.
2006-07-19 08:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got a big problem on ur hands...y dnt u take him out somewhere to hang wit you n let him meet some people
2006-07-19 08:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tara Baybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound cute to me! just have him one day to go out with you and see if you can set him up with this girl. or your can go in tell him that you need to let him no that he have to take a chose. and tell me how it work out.
2006-07-19 08:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bop him on the back of the head and say "Wake up buddy!!"
2006-07-19 08:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by collgirl21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i won't say hes hopeless, but he just needs some REAL help.
2006-07-19 08:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ruin it for him, he has something too look forward to now. even if it is hopeless
2006-07-19 08:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋