i think he's cheating on me and if i get his password i can know for sure and not make the biggest mistake of my life we are to be married in a week and i really need to know
2006-07-19 08:06:51 · 29 answers · asked by Super N.E.R.D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a key logging program...there are even free ware versions in places like ZDnet. Load the key logger on your puter and then let him log on.
I did this with my laptop and found out that my EX girlfriend had six personal ads out on the web.
2006-07-19 08:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by photonic_beam 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello Super N.E.R.D,
And you call yourself a Super NERD? Tisk, tisk. Just go to myspace.com and do a search for your old man. When you get there, check out his list of friends and read his friend's comments to get a clue what's going on. You don't need to have a password to see that stuff.
Better yet, if he's using a Mac, check out his History menu in Safari (I'm not sure what the equivalent is on Windows Internet Explorer). I guess that you just start typing up the URL and you get a listing of sites.
Many people think that if you suspect that your mate is cheating, then he/she probably is. On the other hand, it doesn't look like you don't trust him anyway. He is marrying you, isn't he?
--Rick
2006-07-19 08:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know this is against the law correct? Unless of course he gives it to you, but if you get it other than that, it is against the law.
And I think this myspace crap is nonsense. Nothing good can come from it. I see my room mate all the time meeting and always arguing with some girl on myspace through phone or IM. I use myspace to only keep in touch with my past friends in HS and current ones.
Myspace is the devil.
2006-07-19 08:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get married. You will stress yourself out every second while being with him. You will make it a ritual and start affecting your mind.
You will start checking the following:
miles on the car
see if the car is warm or hot
his underwear
his grooming like more colonge or haircuts trimmed
his bank accounts
receipts of his spending like if it has 2 parties on the receipt
phone calls or numbers
emails
See the list will go on forever..this is why you will never trust him. You have to trust yourself first. By the way, has he given you any reasons to start this paranoia of trust?
2006-07-19 08:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by smiles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The best solution is if you have acess to his computer , to instal an invisible keylogger. There are several types of keyloggers on the internet. There are even ones that collect all his keystrokes and send it to you through the internet. Or if you can t work it our in this manner you should contact www.rayaharigroup.com they cand get Yahoo, Hotmail and AOL passwords for as low as 100$ .
Good luck
2006-07-19 08:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down next to him next time he is one the computer and ask him to explain myspace to you and how it works. Have him log into his page to show you how it works. Ask him to see his emails or whatever. If you are indeed getting married, then it is time to be open about everything. If he refuses, or hides certain things, then while he may not be physically cheating, he is doing something, and call off the wedding till he comes clean.
2006-07-19 08:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for it. If you don't trust him, then you shouldn't be getting married.
Another little trick, if you can't get into his account, make up an account of your own, using a false profile and then talk to him. See what he says to a stranger. Try this being a girl, see if he flirts, or try it being a guy and see if he reveals anything as a friend. Good Luck.
2006-07-19 08:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the man of many affairs;
If you think he is, then he is, and you will never be satisfied that he is not... Stop the nonsense, but dont marry him! It will be the biggest mistake you ever make, or the worst life you will ever create for him and you!
2006-07-19 08:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by R. W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Or guess. What are his passwords for other stuff bc he prolly uses the same one for everything. But fi you can't even trust him now what makes you think you can trust him once you get married?
2006-07-19 08:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even thinking he is cheating is enough reason to not get married. There are either some trust issues or self esteem issues or he is a cheat. Either way you look at it, marriage is not a good idea.
2006-07-19 08:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋