This is my first pregnancy but I never felt any symptoms. Is this okay? I am 12 weeks pregnant but I am so scared. I worry too much about my baby. I had sex with my bf and was painful for me. It felt like my abdomen was going to pop. During/after sex my abdomen was hurting. Is this normal? Did I harm my baby in any way? HELP ME PLS!
2006-07-19 07:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Elijah James is here! [9.22.09] 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Be glad you don't feel the symptoms you are not missing anything there I am 17 weeks and I still don't have symptoms. Try to relax believe it or not your body knows what it is doing your worring cause's more problems than helps. As for the sex everyone is different and every pregnancy is different with both of my girls I wanted nothing to do with sex and with both of my boys my husband cant give me enough. Make sure the pain is not your nerves or you just making yourself believe it hurts sometime we do that so our partners will stop and not pressure us because they don't want to hurt us if that is not the case and you are really in pain talk to your Dr. or try different positions sex shouldn't hurt and it will definitely not hurt your baby your cervix will protect your baby from harm.
2006-07-19 08:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Priceless 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have any symptoms either. I was more tired at the end of the day, but that was it. That's not a bad sign-it's a good thing!
As for painful sex, that could defiitely be you being paranoid. Sex does NOT hurt your baby. Your boyfriend can't get up anywhere near where the baby is-your cervix blocks him!
Calm down-you're fine.
2006-07-19 07:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling you are having during and after sex are probably contractions. But don't worry it is ok as long as the doctor hasn't restricted your activities. It is normal for a womans uterus to contract after sex. If it is really hurting you to have sex try different positions and explain to your boyfriend how it makes you feel. Besides it can be fun coming up with other ways of doing it. Try laying on your side with him laying on his side behind you. Penetration is not as deep and should be more comfy for you. That is my fav. while I am pregnant. Less pain for me that way.
2006-07-19 08:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nina J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be feeling the baby move soon..
As for sex with your boyfriend. if it hurts during and after i wouldn't be doiing it until you talk to you doctor.. which you should be going to see are you?
It is not normal to hurt while having sex.. so check with a doctor to see what is going on.. don't think you probably hurt the baby but always best to check it out before having anymore sex.. good luck..
2006-07-19 07:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will not hurt the baby,(could be done up until your water breaks unless otherwise told by your OB)As long as you are keeping your prenatanl appointments you should be ok. If you haven't had any symptoms,well, then lucky you.Hopefully you won't have to experience morning sickness(actually end at 5 month).Good Luck!!
2006-07-19 08:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jillsifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask your doctor. My first pregnancy - I wanted nothing to do with sex. Everything I had hurt. This pregnancy (I'm 13 weeks) it isn't bothering me at all. They say that sex won't harmt he baby but I don't believe it should be painful.
2006-07-19 07:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal. pain during sex is normal.your body is changing and so is your bottom side talk to your doctor if this really bothers you and count your blessings you arent sick i was sick from the moment i found out i was pregnant the last three times good luck
2006-07-19 07:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common for a pregnant woman to have pain during sex. Try being on top, and it might not be to uncomfortable. for you.
2006-07-19 07:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a Dr. but i do have tons of sisters and neices and the symptoms for each person will vary .each person is different but what you COULD DO is call an o.b./gyn and ask them or make an appt.good luck, keep me informed, j/w as a friend
2006-07-19 08:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just stop having sex if it is painful. you should be fine, but if the pain has persisted go to the doctor. they are very kind and excellent about 1st time moms. take care...
2006-07-19 07:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋