hmmmm okay I used to be friends with this kid....since I was in elementary school?

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but now we hate each other. We were friends until about half way through high school, but as I just stated we are arch enemies now. I'm better than him at every thing (I'm really good looking--by the way we are both guys, i'm more athletic than him, I'm smarter than him (and going to a much better college starting this fall), and hes so jealous of me and even when we were friends he was jealous of me and all that I accomplished. He would always try to prove himself even though he was ugly, stupid compared to me, and I outperformed him athletically. He was the only friend that I inwardly hated because of how jealous he was of me. Theres no way he could ever be more successful than me when we get older.... he just doesn't have the ability. But what bugs me is my parents and his parents still are semi-friends...and see each other from time to time. I wanna kill him because potentially he may be attached to me for life...I'm serious, I really hope he dies in a car crash or that I kill him

what I want to know is is that wrong...because he tries to talk about me and stuff but friends of mine relay thsi back to me.....he's such a prick.

yea to that first comment...his parents know it too, but they try and brag about him to make him seem betetr, and put me down...acvtually its more of his mom...his dad is a boaster...but a half decent soul.

to the second comment....i'm a low key guy....I actually never competed with him....only he competed with me...I simply showed him through my actions not my words that I was better...trust me this kid is insanely jealous

and by the way my best friend...is far more intelligent than I ...at least the college he's going to says so....but I love him for that...I don't resent it.

I support my friends. inside my mind i'm not hoping they do poorly...I really want them to succeed...this kid I actually want to fall flat on his *** and die.

to the latest comments 4 and 5 or something like that... you are morons...if you think its normal for him to be jealous (and his mother) and of everything , even the most trivial things...then you are sick. I have so many friends....and none of them care about ****....this kid won't stay out of my life....he finds ways to slip through the cracks and ignore me either directly or indirectly....I want him to simply never have contact with me again---is that so bad of a thing to ask? Noooooo its not. My parents don't like their parents all that much but his loser parents have no other firends, so they keep leaching and inviting my parents to places, and since my parents aren't jackasses they accept out of courtesy...i am going to ask my parents to stay away from them for good...and if I ask them they will oblige...because they'll know how I feel on the matter.

not ignore*** bother me was what I meant to type...oh well

also the part that kills me the most is hes so ******* fat and ugly....it's annoying to look at him when he talks in his loud obnoxious voice.

by the way I'm an amazingly good friend to have.....anyone that I'm friends with, I get along with great and I am really close with them....this kid just won't let go...I hope since we won't be near each other anymore ( different colleges) this feeling will wear off, but so far it seems like ti hasn't died ( we graduated 2 months a ****** go

ASSHOLES I'M NOT INSECURE...AND YOU'RE ALL RIGHT THIS ISN'T A BIG DEAL...BUT THIS PRICK IS MAKING IT A BIG DEAL....I NEVER THINK ABOUT THIS STUFF...ACCEPT WHEN HE ****** BOTHERS ME---------HIS PARENTS CAME TO MY COOKOUT THE OTHER ****** DAY AND IT PISSES ME OFF THAT i DO ALL i CAN TO AVOID SAYING ANYTHING TO ANYONE ABOUT HIM, RESPECTING HIM IF HE COMES UP IN A CONVERSATION, AND BY NOT TALKIGN OR EVEN SEEING HIM. hE SEEMS TO BE ******** AND WON'T LET ME GO ON TO DO WHAT i WANT TO DO AND LIVE MY LIFE WITH THE FRIENDS THAT i ACTUALLY WANT TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH.

EXCEPT NOT ACCEPT MY FAULT******

Okay here we go again...listen...........I'd be over this...but like some sort of nightmare it just won't end and through no fault of my own. Heres an example.....this is a person who in 20 years would go out of his way to tell me he got a raise at a job...even if I had not seen him in that 20 ******* years. This is a kid who will would drive around my house 100 times if he bought a new car just to show me his new car. This is a kid who would brag about how he got a C+ on a test. It's not normal and I he deserves to die.

Answer 1

For one thing, I know that you are going to get a lot of negative responses like mine, so I suggest you read mine thoroughly. Anyway, you are a horrible person to wish him to die or wanting to kill him. No one deserves to die or be killed because of mere jealousy. I understand how you despise him, but that is no reason, NO REASON AT ALL, to want to kill him. I also understand how you outperformed him in many areas, but you are also being very arrogant about it all, and that's only in one paragraph. You can't control who your parents are friends with, nor can they control who you are friends with, therefore you just have to deal with it in a calm way. If you think I am trying to be on your side, you're wrong, I'm just explaining my thoughts and yours. He did do wrong for coveting your abilities, but that is no reason to wish him death. I also hope that every other responder to your question believes you are terribly wrong.

Saying this:
"to the second comment....i'm a low key guy....I actually never competed with him....only he competed with me...I simply showed him through my actions not my words that I was better...trust me this kid is insanely jealous"

only furthermore caused responders to become against you. If you really understood your actions AND words, you would know that actions speak MUCH louder than words. It doesn't matter if he is jealous or not, because I highly doubt that he is going around saying that he hopes for you to die in a car crash. I know how many people despise long answers, but mine and many others are well worth reading. I may add more to this answer as I see you are adding details, so this response is not yet finished. I never break promises, because as you can see, I am still adding to this response. His parents are not the matter of the subject here, so please refrain from injecting them into the "question" you are "asking". You really need to get over the fact that he is jealous, because even though you know he is, why does it even make a bit of difference to you? It shouldn't. You know why it shouldn't? It shouldn't because even if he is jealous of you as a whole, it will not make one difference to you. As I am to know from the information you provided, you seem like the root of the problem.

Also saying:
"also the part that kills me the most is hes so ******* fat and ugly....it's annoying to look at him when he talks in his loud obnoxious voice."

even added more negative responses to your "question"! Unbelieveable, you are. Never in my life have I seen an arrogant person as you are. No matter what he looks like on the outside, and no matter what YOU look like on the outside, one thing's for sure, he's much better on the inside than you are.

Furthermore, saying this:
"ASSHOLES I'M NOT INSECURE...AND YOU'RE ALL RIGHT THIS ISN'T A BIG DEAL...BUT THIS PRICK IS MAKING IT A BIG DEAL....I NEVER THINK ABOUT THIS STUFF...ACCEPT WHEN HE ****** BOTHERS ME---------HIS PARENTS CAME TO MY COOKOUT THE OTHER ****** DAY AND IT PISSES ME OFF THAT i DO ALL i CAN TO AVOID SAYING ANYTHING TO ANYONE ABOUT HIM, RESPECTING HIM IF HE COMES UP IN A CONVERSATION, AND BY NOT TALKIGN OR EVEN SEEING HIM. hE SEEMS TO BE ******** AND WON'T LET ME GO ON TO DO WHAT i WANT TO DO AND LIVE MY LIFE WITH THE FRIENDS THAT i ACTUALLY WANT TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH."

added more tension to the responses, causing them to steer against you. He is not stopping you from living your life, you are stopping yourself from living your life by caring so much about a little bit of jealousy. I not yet finished, even though in my head I am furious at the way you are with your arrogance and vain towards people.

Again:
"Okay here we go again...listen...........I'd be over this...but like some sort of nightmare it just won't end and through no fault of my own. Heres an example.....this is a person who in 20 years would go out of his way to tell me he got a raise at a job...even if I had not seen him in that 20 ******* years. This is a kid who will would drive around my house 100 times if he bought a new car just to show me his new car. This is a kid who would brag about how he got a C+ on a test. It's not normal and I he deserves to die."

by saying this, you STILL bring more negativeness onto yourself. Maybe he looks up to you, maybe he thinks you're so cool that he just wants to be like you. Lighten up, get over it, and get a life.

Answer 2

Oh, for goodness sake, GROW UP.

It must be hard to be you. So good looking, athletically talented, smart and so modest. Honestly, your question makes you sound stupid and like a complete asshole. It seems like you are the one dwelling on your differences and his (supposed) jealousy.

This guy is probably a decent guy and after you both go to college, hopefully you will both grow up and put old rivalries to bed and realize it's not important. You should consider yourself lucky to have such close family friends you have known all your life.

But, I also understand that some people just don't get along and if that is the case, you are a (semi) grownup now and you can make your own decisions about who you spend time with. Explain to your parents that you do not wish to be involved in activities with this other family.

Answer 3

Well this one isn't going to get me "best answer" but hell man get over yourself!!

OK you're better then he is, even at breathing - do you really think in 20 years anyone is going to give a flying monkey? At that point you may or may not be doing better then he is - and again - who exactly do you think is going to give a flying monkey?

Get over yourself, you sound like a big fish in a small pond - yeah, you may have to deal with him for the rest of your life...so what? No matter what age you are there are people you don't want to have to deal with. And guess what? Some times it's your boss - or someone else in authority that you can't "hate out loud" or be aggressive towards- so suck it up!!!

Answer 4

Wow. Get over yourself. I understand that you're upset about this, but if you're off to a different college in the fall, then just wait for it. Hopefully you'll both grow up a little bit and figure out that there will always be people better at things and people worse at things than you (yes, there will be people better at things than even you.) And there will always be people who you don't like. You can either go around ranting and wishing death upon them without thinking what that means, just like a spoiled child, or you can suck it up and move on.

Answer 5

You should be grateful you are learning about this side of yourself--so you can keep it under control. You seem to have alot going for you. But if you weren't insecure about something, you would just write him off as someone who is threatened by other's successes.

You will encounter people like this all your life. Learn to devote 0% emotion on them.

As much of a loser as you describe this guy as, you give him a tremendous amount of power over you, as you have thoughts of his death, and hate him passionately.

Show some compassion for people who don't have it as easy as you do, and don't waste another second on letting him bother you.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You're pshyco!!!!!

Though I'm not religious, have you heard of the seven deadly sins. Lets see, how about vanity, pride, rage...

I think you need to get over yourself and remember it's an honor that he envy's you, another deadly sin, but still. He looks up to you and you hate him for it.

Looks and athletics aren't everything you know. How about kindness, and gratitude, and sincerity, and love. I think you need to grow up and get a life. It sounds like you probably think about him more than he even thinks about you.

Get over yourself! So not attractive.

Answer 8

He sounds like a real a** hole. Confront him and let him know how lame he's been. Friends shouldn't treat each othre or think as you two are. People grow apart and leave.

Have fun in college!

Answer 9

You are horrible for saying you want him to die!!!! What is your ? It sounds like to me you might be jealous. What is the big deal if he admires your goals and accomplishments. Get over yourself and move on.

Answer 10

Honestly if you were throwing that stuff up in his face that could be the reason why your enemies now. nobody likes to see how they are un adequate compared to someone else. How would you feel if you got another friend and they were constantly throw up their accomplishments in your face?