2006-07-19 07:11:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it all depends on what they did
2006-07-19 07:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that humans have relationships because it makes his or her life better or easier. Keeping in mind that everyone has made mistakes, there is nothing wrong with spending less time with a person that drains your emotional energy all the time. But if this person does not CONTINUE to hurt you, and you feel you would both benefit from each others' friendship, by all means, give this person another chance. I suppose if you get hurt again, you will have your answer to whether you should be friends. If you are going to give this person another chance, though, do NOT hold this past hurt over their head. It is either over and done, or you should move on.
2006-07-19 15:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on you, I mean, I some of my friends have done things in the past to hurt me really bad and everything but I am still friend with them with the trust that they wont do it again. I am also friends wiht some of my ex-boyfriends and some of them hurt me wiht we were going out, but it gets to a point where you kinda got to just get over it and trust thats it different situations and they wont go and do it agian. so it up to you and how you feel, if you feel like you can trust the person anymore at all then I guess not but if it is something you think you might be able to get over and everything then go ahead and be thier friend!
2006-07-19 14:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by luvme6448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would because you should be a forgiving person
and try not to thing about the past just let it go. I mean you can't let something like tha bother unless it was bad bad bad then yea don't be friends with them. BUt there a good friend then just go for it it's better then not talking to them at all .
2006-07-19 16:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Charissa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. I'm friends with my ex who did some pretty horrible things to me. It took 4 years for us to do it. He was truly sorry though and we did alot of talking about it. People can change and grow up. Some can't.
2006-07-19 14:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! Life is too short! . We are human we also hurt other people in the past and what is important is we learned from our mistakes.
2006-07-19 14:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by spydurwuman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what they did , friends hurt you sometime and you can either grow from it and move on with the friendship. or let them go ...
You decide is the hurt you were feeling something that you can overcome once your friends again .... Or you just can't let it go
2006-07-19 14:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what happened. If you can let by gones be by gones. Why not.. everyone deserves a second chance. Esp. friends. Just be careful to not let the same thing repeat itself.
2006-07-19 14:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to forgive them sooner or later because belive it or not one of these days you will need help from her for example i hated this girl who was my friend for about 15 years then it ended up that i needed a job so i went to work at a bank and asked for a job and found out she was the one who hired people so i ended up not getting a job
2006-07-19 14:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by la-la-la<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how they hurt u and if ur willing 2 try it again
2006-07-19 16:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by A0I5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what he did??? and since u know him or her personally, so u would know him. if he is good at heart , he needs to be forgiven, TO ERR IS HUMANE
take care n keep smiling 4ever. u never know who may have fallen in love with ur smile!!!!!
2006-07-19 14:23:52 · answer #11 · answered by madhur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋