Me and my older sister always fight. Well she got so mad at me, and told my mom that ive had sex, and now my mom beleives her, and i told her i was going to prove that ive never did it.
2006-07-19 07:07:56 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
there are tests you can do at a clinic or at the hospital. but thats about it.
2006-07-19 07:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to prove that to your sister, mother, or anybody that you are a virgin. Your sister was unfair to lie and your mother is unfair not to trust you. Perhaps you lost her trust by lying before or misbehaving yourself, in which case you have a bigger problem and need to regain her trust. If your mother is just being unfair, you cannot win her understanding in this way.
The test is unreliable. Most virgin girls have a hymen that gets broken the first time they have sex (which makes it a little painful). But not all do. Google the word "hymen" for an explanation.
Also, there is a point in a girl's life when she will have sex. In this world that is probably before marriage. You should wait until the time is right, be careful about pregnancy and disease (make sure the boy uses a condom), and avoid anybody who is bad for you. But if it ever happens do not be ashamed and do not let your family convince you that you are unworthy. Sadly, families with the strongest attitudes against sex are the ones where so many girls end up pregnant -- because they cannot deal with the issue reasonably or honestly.
So, back to your family. If I were you I would tell you rmother confidently that your sister is lying because she is mad at you and that you are still a virgin, and that you don't care what they think because that's the truth. Leave it at that. All you can do is say the truth. It's up to them what to believe.
2006-07-19 07:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Monso Orda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious, are you like a teen? Well if you really desire to prove this. There is a way arrange an appointment to see an OB/GYN.... make the appointment for birth control. Take your mom with you into the exam room. your choice. Then explain the situation to your Dr. They can examine you and confirm this with you. There is something called a Hymen.. you know the cherry.. it should be intact. You should not have to go thought this.. none of no ones business!!
2006-07-19 07:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I would know to PROVE it would be, visiting a Gynecologist. Talk to your Mother and tell her why you told your sister that,unless she has a reason to think other wise, or she is really worried about it,maybe she will drop it. I can't imagine why you would tell your sister that, she also cares for you. That was kind of thoughtless on your part. We often say things in anger that we wished we had not said. Next time put your brain in gear before your anger goes out of control.
2006-07-19 07:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if u are the right person to know that u r a virgin and didnt have sex .
If u r mom can get a Gynacologist and get u tested,she is the person to explain it better to ur mom that ur a virgin.
It is the trust ur mom should be having in u babe. It should not be coming by a doctors consultation.
2006-07-19 08:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by sonu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a medical way to prove it. If your hymen is still intact then your proven a virgin. Yet some cases there are virgins, but the hymen has stretched or is not there. So besides that your mother is going to have to take your word for it. Get a recording of your sister stating how she lied to your mother?... Sorry you have to go thru this. Don't let it ruin you.
2006-07-19 07:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by m0mmatcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't prove it unless you go and have a doctor examine you. Seriously, your mom knows the truth. Unless your sister is admitting to being there while you had it, she's full of it. Tell them that you know the truth and you're moving on.
2006-07-19 07:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by spolie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try a doctor, they might know if your a virgin though a test. I know they would have to find out if your a virgin from something other than checking the hymen. Because the hymen can break during development of the fetus sometimes, exercise (like riding a bike, horseback riding, etc), tampons or a pelvic exam can tear it. Basically, only you yourself knows if your a virgin or not.
2006-07-21 11:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling ur mom shud take ur word 4 it but if not i dont know maybe there's a medical test a doctor can do but i mean people hav been saying get the doctor 2 look 2 check ur hymen is in tact but btw the hymen isnt visible otherwise dont cha think evry1 wud b popping their own so first time sex wud b painless cuz i kno i wud lol
2006-07-19 12:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Becky Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell your mom to take you to the Dr., most times they can tell if you ruptured, but the mere fact that you want to go & prove it, should tell your mom what she needs to know. Otherwise, you know the truth, I'd turn the tables on your mom & make her feel bad for NOT believing your word, then she'll apoligize for doubting you, & tell her when you're ready to be intimate with someone you'll let her know if she wants!
2006-07-19 07:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by silverfox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will probably have to go to a doctor to prove it. But even then, if for some reason your hymen is not in place, then I am not sure if they can prove it. But I think if you say you are willing to go to the doctor to prove it that will mean alot.
2006-07-19 07:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by nym_psuedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋