Ok, I met my fiance' through my best friend and her husband, 10 months ago we really hit it off, we are in love and are planning our wedding for March 31st. I moved about an hour from where I was living to be with my fiance and my fiance and I have been talking about moving back to where I am from but my fiance was employed by my best friends husband. We didn't want to tell my best friend or her husband just yet so we told them we were just going out of town last weekend well her husband (my fiances boss) didn't want to have to work the weekend he was mad my fiance and I were going away and he had mentioned that if my fiance took the time off he would make him miserable. We returned to work yesterday, and my fiance got fired. His boss is trying to say he has been stealing money from the store, he even went as far as to say my fiance stole money this weekend when we were gone. When I talked to my best friend she defended her husband saying he had videotape showing my fiance did it.
2006-07-19 07:05:28 · 12 answers · asked by grizzliesgurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know what to do I love my fiance, he is so mad and he has even broke down crying he is hurt at being accused of something so heinous. I know he didn't do it. He is afraid that we are going to lose our friends especially myself and my best friend she and I are like sisters we have been friends for almost 10 years but I don't want to be friends with her husband if he is going to be like this. I don't know what to do.
2006-07-19 07:15:00 · update #1
ALSO- my best friend was supposed to be my matron of honor in our wedding any ideas on how to handle that?
2006-07-19 08:12:32 · update #2
Bad news on both sides, apparently the boss doesn't trust your fiance.
Go back to wherever you want to move and just start over. Learn something from the whole experience and resolve not to make these same mistakes again.
As for the friendship with the bosses' wife or girlfriend, sometimes we just have to chalk up certain losses and forget it. It's inevitably part of life.
There isn't even any point in my opinion of asking to look at the tape. I suppose the boss could turn it over to the police if it was a significant amount of money.
Most states don't bother to prosecute for anything under $500.00-it's just not worth it.
You would never be happy if your fiance continued to work for someone who didn't trust him.
2006-07-19 07:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
If they have video tape ask to see it w/out your hubby. Act as if your going to leave him if it's him in the tape.....And if it ends up being him That's your decision...and if it's not...I'd get a lawyer ASAP...Wrongful Termination. Good Luck
2006-07-19 07:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait to you see the video and see if he really stole from his best friend...then you decide if your friends are truly your friends
2006-07-19 07:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends. your supposed best friend sounds like a biatch and his friend sounds like a back stabbing dick... You shouldnt be treated like that. Good luck
2006-07-19 07:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i dont really think they are your friends, and i think you two should pack up and leave for sure now. There is nothing holding you there.
2006-07-19 07:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so tell the boss to roll the dam tape and prove it.
2006-07-19 07:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to see the video, because you don't want to be with someone who is a thief (act like that's the reason you want to see it)
2006-07-19 07:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don' t panick the truth will conquer! go ahead with your plans
2006-07-19 07:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by weghk f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a lawyer contact them about this firing!
2006-07-19 07:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the reason why someone said
When people go to work, they shouldn't have to leave
their hearts at home.
2006-07-19 07:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋