K well....ive been used hated despised liedto and insulted by my friends and everyone thats not my friend wich inclodes enemys girls i like people i dun even know and my family and i think i give up on life its self all ive ever done was be there for people and help people and then its like " sorry but err i got somethn to do today" or "do you got ciggarettes u do? good then come over" yeah and every person i meet either is my friend out of pity or dosent even really wanna be my friend they jus dont wanna tell me themselves they dont wanna hang out or they hate me secretly and like dont tell me ill meet better people cause i wont the same **** happens i find friends discover the truth then were not friends and it repeats its self and ive never doen anything but help out my friends and be there when they need me soo yeah im jus woundering if i should give up on life or not cause seriously im tired of people treating me like **** mabye if i did something extream theyd care but ya...
2006-07-19 06:45:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no efense i love jesus but me saying i love jesus isnt gonna help me at all soo why even suggest that thank u tho for being concerning jus no one tell me to find jesus
2006-07-19 06:55:42 · update #1
sweetie this is life
There are some coolhearted people in this world
Don't live for them, live for yourself
You just haven't found the right friend
never give up
At times I feel like know one likes me or I can't do this or that, but I think to myself forget those people i'm just going to live my life
All those things that people said or did to me made me stronger
babe don't think about doing somethinbg that u will regret for the rest of your life.
There are people out here in htis world that are just waiting, and wanting to hear what u have to talk about
Try me babe
i'm a good friend
if u ever need to chat with anyboay talk to me ok
love ya
2006-07-19 07:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcherry4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these situations will give you perspective in the future, and who you are will be shaped by how you react to what happens around you now. Can you move? Are you old enough to start over again, somewhere else? Sometimes the people we know still think that we are the same stupid kid from a long time ago, or have a preconceived notion of our personality that is hard to dispel. But hang in there, and know that negative situations can only make us stronger, if we choose so.
2006-07-19 13:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is NO!!!! you are obviously down on yourself because of the negative experiences in your relationships. My suggestion is try volunteering. You will see that there are people who are in much worse positions than you--whose lives you could cheer up and you might meet other people w/similar attriubutes as you. Seek spirituality--whatever that may be for you! Take up a hobby, learn something new, join a support group,commit to a weekly activity--like long walks, jogging, going to a movie, etc. I think life is what YOU make of it. It isn't easy and in fact, it is hard--but that doesn't mean we should stop living and growing. We have a responsibility to ourself. Believe in yourself and do not become "used to" the rut. Do something new today! You will see that we are all on the same boat--looking for connections. Good luck!
2006-07-19 14:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no you shouldn't give up on life! We all go through hardships, but you shouldn't end your life over it! Forget those so called friends and just focus on yourself and making you, (number 1) happy. Once you get yourself together you'll weed out all of the bullshit friends and gain true ones. You obviously must be extremely attractive and talented because those people sound like they are jealous of you! Don't ever let anyone else get you down, you were put here by God and God only makes beautiful things and you are worth more than what you'll ever really know! Life is already too short, don't waste it! Things will get better, trust me they always do!
2006-07-19 14:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Brown Suga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as bad a you may think your life is there are thousands if not millions of people who have it far worser then you can ever imagine. just be glad that you are fortunate enough to even have a computer to ask such a question. don't worry to much about it though someday soon you'll find a friend you just have to go out more and be more independant. good luck with life and god bless you.
2006-07-19 13:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by VISKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be picking the wrong type of people to be "friends" with.
Don't worry when you get older you will have real friends.
Besides its better to have 1 or 2 good friends then 100 buddies.
2006-07-19 13:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
given up on life is not the problem your friends sounds like they don't care about you tell them you don't wanna be friends with you if you treat like crap just meet new friends and start fresh no matter what your friends or family thinks don't pay attention to them if they say something rude just walk away from it and hold your head up high no matter how bad it gets you will meet friends you like and they will treat you good and respect you
Jessica B.
2006-07-19 13:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by jess_n_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on life...You shouldn't care bout other people so much or about what others think live for yourself...remember its not about the destination its about the journey and to the world you maybe one person but to one person you maybe the world
2006-07-19 13:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by cutiestnowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first...don't go and do something stupid, they'll just think you're stupid. Maybe you should try a different group of people to hang with. Be your own person and think about what kind of person you want to be, but don't give up. You're life is what you make of it.
2006-07-19 13:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its foolish. and when tense over this kind of minor issue? and there is nothing wrong to like someone you haven't know yet. everything is just part and parcel of life. do something which you are interested to keep you occupied.
2006-07-19 13:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by penpalpartner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋