my cousins daughter is 17 years old just turned 17, 3 days ago. she has a 9 month old boy, and she is 7 months pregnant with a girl. let me remind you that these are 2 different dads by the way. my cousin is my best friend and i am there for her all the way, but when she speaks of her daughter it just makes me cringe becuase how young she is with all these babys and shes just a baby her self. and to remind you she has the worst additude and shes the biggest ***** in the world, so any ways i have no simpathy for her and when i talk to my cousin about her she gets mad becasue i talk about her daughter in a bad way. am i wrong?? what do you think? *(PS- i am the godmother though of the 9month old baby boy)
2006-07-19 06:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The kids are born, you can't undo that. The best thing you can do is support her as best you can and help those kids have the closest thing to a normal/ideal life possible. Unfortunate? Yes. But it's not the kids' fault and the mom CAN wise up and raise them right with some guidance from a good friend or cousin. What's done is done, you can't change it. Take the current situation and make the best of it for these children.
Best of luck, i know you'll be there for them.
2006-07-19 06:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 6 · 19⤊ 2⤋
First of all, you don't need to remind your cousin what a failure her daughter is, believe me she already knows. She may be talking her up, so that she will remember she is not a total loser. No mother wants to see that their children aren't perfect. She is probably grieving over "what could have been, but never will be". The daughter is probably a b**ch, because she is overwhelmed. A child her age, is not emotionally ready to be a parent. She really needs the support of her mother and her family now, if she had more help with her children, she may have an attitude adjustment in the process. Good Luck to you, and your family.
2006-07-19 06:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by mischa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cringe at this. I don't feel that you should have sympathy for your little cousin (she made her bed...) but I think it is wrong for you to trash talk her on the net or to her mother. You say you are the godmother of this 9 month old boy so going against my better judgment I will assume that you care about him. Do not hurt him by trash talking his mother no matter how promiscuous or irresponsible you may think she is. He may find out about it when he grows up and resent you for it. You are also treading on shallow ground by discussing your ill thoughts about your little cousin to her mother. Since you disagree with your cousin about her daughter I would suggest that you not let this become a topic of conversation with her.
2006-07-19 06:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's good you care for her. I think you are right-she is very young. But instead of talking bad about her daughter, just be a bit more nice about it. Let her know about how you feel and offer her some help. Ask her if she's ever been to church and take her so she can say sorry to God (since she is not married and has 2 different dads for the kids) and sometimes they have the faculty donate money-just a thought tho.
2006-07-19 06:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think u r wrong at all about talking to your cousin about her daughter . That girl is reaching out for help and somebody really needs to help her . She's just probably looking for love and attention that she not getting at home . Where is her father ? Is he in her life ? That's probably why she's acting like that .
2006-07-19 06:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Skittles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur the godmother of one of the kids, then I say ur a hypocrite and should stop bad mouthing that 17 year old!!!!!!
2006-07-19 06:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't talk badly about the baby because none asks to be in this world. Also, instead of discouraging her try to take burden off of her.
2006-07-19 06:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slute
2006-07-19 06:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess try not to be so harsh when you talk down on how slutty she is. Those are their mistakes and if they want your help they'll ask for it. I guess its not really your business even if she is a w.hore.
2006-07-19 06:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..someone needs to tight her screws so she can keep her legs close and go to school and get her damn education.I hate and cant stand girls like her.shame on her.
2006-07-19 06:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋