How come men will spent a eternity trying to get sex from a woman but as soon as they are done they want her to leave. I am sure alot of you will not tell the truth ,,but you know it is true.
2006-07-19 06:08:51 · 44 answers · asked by tom g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In a way it is true. It is human nature. One is greatly enamored by the new dress one wears first time for a party and take a lot of care when it is new. Soon it wears out and starts fraying. One looses interest in the old dress and goes for new dress. It may sound very blunt but true that man/ or any male species created by God is a born polygamist. Nature has endowed the male species with special features. Look at peacock with its resplendent feathers as compared to a peahen which is quite unattractive in comparison.Same is true of a lion a Bengal tiger. Furthermore man is fertile it appears till eternity or at least till he is seventy years old. Women have their menopause starting as early as forty five years. Men during sex, at a time, are endowed with the capacity to deliver billions of sperm, each capable of impregnating an ovum while it is very limited ova that women are capable of.It is therefore God's design which has endowed male species with such special status to attract the other sex. It is therefore no wonder that men run after women to start with. It is not right to expect the same pattern of behavior through out .
2006-07-19 06:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because that is all they wanted to begin with. You will find yourself doing the same things at times. If you are friends and have a lot in common with someone your chances are much better at a relationship. Make them work for it by not making it too easy for them. Don't be so available, don't call them if they say they are going to and don't. Make other plans. Cause really until you find the right man for you, You will meet a lot of toads. Get to know them first, then there won't be any surprises like that or tell him to leave.We make ourselves way to available for this sort of behavior on the part of men.
2006-07-19 06:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that guys just want sex.. and after they get sex, then it's off to the next person for sex because they want to see how the sex is like with someone else.
2006-07-19 06:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by BokBok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given their biology, men are compelled to seek every sexual opportunity they can get. This drive is particularly strong in younger men. However, men, both biologically and culturally, are not driven to seek relationships to the degree that women are. Therefore, a lot of the men are seeking sex without the entanglement of relationship.
2006-07-19 06:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're ashamed that we couldn't quench your sexual thirst and besides your probably laughing as us too hard for us to do anything... no really men don't know about after sex foreplay it's not hard a little back rub some cuddling or something as simple as getting you a glass of water so men get with the program and nurture the woman after sex it's the least we can do
2006-07-19 06:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean, they just pass out after sex... men get tired after great sex, chemical release.
If you mean they leave, some guys like the trill of the hunt. Once they play with there new "toy" they lose interest. Not all guys are like that.
2006-07-19 06:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about the chase and eventual conquer. Every waited forever to get the newest phone or gadget but when u get it, it isn't as great as you thought. People get so excited about something that it can never live up to the hype. Besides as soon as you get that phone there is a newer version out you are gonna want.
2006-07-19 06:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by designsjm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they want to try other women. and usually men who wants women to leave after sex,it means they dont care bout that woman to whom they just finished.but if the guy wants her to stay,it could have 2 reasons y,
1. the guy's scared that he would not have sex again in his life only to that girl.in short all he wants is sex from the girl.
2.the guy loves her.
so u better be sure d guy is serious with you...girls should NOT let guys use girls!esp for just sex!
2006-07-19 06:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Brendan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men feel like they have no use for the woman after they give it up. its all about respect if you make a man respect you he will stick around but if you just open your legs at the flip of a switch the he'll take what he wants and be like see ya!
2006-07-19 06:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by walstib_710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you "shoot your load", you just want to relax and not be touched and watch sportscenter.
I know us men get a lot of flack for that, but it really is a primordial thing . . . . . cavemen and stuff . . . .
90% of the women men sleep with --> the second men are done, they kinda don't want anything to do with them . . . me included. So, after I slept with my (future) wife for the first time, I still really liked her. So, 2 years later, I decided to marry her! 5 years later, all is well . . . . and I'm still crazy about her!
2006-07-19 06:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Matt_NYC72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋