i confided in my sister everything i felt for him and they disliked each other then but all the sudden her man dumps her and she goes for him
2006-07-19 06:08:26 · 15 answers · asked by mom of three 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It was not cool, but maybe they really like each other.
Give yourself time (and them). You were not making it with this guy despite your feelings. Sounds like you just liked him "because".
I know it is tough being a single parent. There are not a lot of guys that would take on you. Even if you are super hot. Being mother of 3 takes about 75% of the men out of the market for you.
As far as your sister, the reason that we have family is because we would never choose them as friends.
2006-07-19 09:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My plan:
1. Get really upset, find a quiet place and indulge in a temper tantrum. Destroy pillows, punch stuff.
2. Get over it, make peace. Try to decide if they are a better match than you and the man were or if the guy is actually scum who will hurt your sister as well as you. Talk to your sister.
3. Forgive. Men come and go, but you only have that one sister. Besides, think of how much it will freak her and the guy out when you react calmly :-)
2006-07-19 06:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. Sounds like your sister is trying to get even with you for something. In siblings its not uncommon for one to feel that the other is always better at everything, school, boys, better looking, ect. Maybe she feels this way about you and secretly resents you. This could be her way of making herself feel as good as you or her way of making you feel terrible because she has the power to take something you cared about away from you. You definitely need to deal with this now before she starts doing even worse things towards you.
2006-07-19 06:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chemistry is merely that. Chemistry. If it is no longer there, or if it is no longer excellent, it should not be. stay acquaintances with him and seek for someone else who knocks you socks off! do not marry someone merely because you're sturdy acquaintances... you would possibly want to fairly love one yet another. decelerate, attempt persistence... it quite works. the right guy will come alongside... yet save in recommendations, it is going to ensue in God's timing, no longer yours. So do not rush it. loosen up and stay unmarried for now!
2016-11-06 20:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I'm sorry your sister is so awful. Who cares what HE does - HE isn't related to you. Your sister is the one you should be upset about. You're HER sister, and you obviously know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking. So it's safe to assume that SHE knows it's wrong also. There's something deeper there.
2006-07-19 06:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds really mean. Maybe you should confront again and tell her how bad your hurting. And if she stills dates him, well she's not a very good sister. But get busy with somthing else to get him off your mind.
2006-07-19 06:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad at your sister because why would she take him after you have already been with him.
Don't get mad at the boy because nowing him he really don't care about it or your sister. If you are going to be mad at anybody then be mad at your sister for taking your leftovers.
2006-07-19 06:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is not cool, I would never go after a guy my sister had been with or really liked, that is like taboo.
2006-07-19 06:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by niceone698 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your biggest enemy is your closest friend,right now the person you should be upset with is your sister,she just proved to you that she can't be trusted,WHAT A SITER,have you thought of confronting her about it&telling her your mind you do have every right.
2006-07-19 06:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to replace you with the best fit he can find? The kid sounds like a tool, don't worry about it.
2006-07-19 06:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Brian G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋