2006-07-19 06:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by Jo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you have a suspicion that he is cheating....nine times out of ten he is.......
2006-07-19 06:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by bayfrog5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if you can really tell if a guy is cheating but keep track of what he is doing every weekend. If he would rather do things with other people and not with you I would be suspicious. If there are certain nights he's gone out and you dont know where he goes plan something for that night and see his reaction. If that dont work I would suggest just following him a few times just to see. Do it without him seeing you of course. Put a recorder under his seat of the car and turn it on as soon as he leaves. Just tell him you think you left something in the car, your purse or something. I dont know what else to tell you, only good luck.
2006-07-19 06:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god if there was a sure way Id be all over it!! Subtle clues of course. Not being where he says he is. (I am that crazy jealous chick who will check) Being defensive when you casually ask whats going on. When someone lies that will avoid eye contact. Repeat or dodge the question (while they think of an answer) put a barrier up. Cross the arms or other movements that dictate a "wall" between you and the truth. Rubbing the ears and eyes. Just to name a few. Body language body language body language.
2006-07-19 06:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by designsjm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer. but if you have suspect it. Call him on it. Yes you need trust in a realtionship. but obviously you are worried. If he gets deffensive he is probably up to something. On the other hand I never expected my ex to cheat on my. That was the most stupidest thinng I ever did. I trusted her completely. 100% . It is a good thing that you don't trust him as much as I did. That will lesson the pain if you were to find out otherwise.
2006-07-19 06:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by bigblock_475_hp d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jo, let me tell you that two ingredients are very important in any relationship; love and trust. I'm sorry to inform you that the two are lacking in your relationship with that guy right now. Otherwise you won't be having a thought whether he's cheating or not. Please, take my advice and devote all your effort to love and trust him even if he doesn't reciprocate your gestures (for now). But eventually, if you persevere and you're persistent, you'll eventually win him. That's what I call real love. Cheers!
2006-07-19 06:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cant tell if your guy is cheating only you can tell if he is cheating... and if you asking might be you have some real concerns about his behavior...... Behavior is the best way to tell.... and hey you have to do what ever you have to do to find out spy ask or follow him around...because now and days is not only your pride that gets hurt but your health if hes out there with a scank you have all the rights to be concern.....good luck.
2006-07-19 06:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hott girl and set him up.
2006-07-19 06:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he change the way he was acting or do things he normaly would't spent less time with you.
2006-07-19 06:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by babo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋