Should I look for someone else?Because another man in my life is the last thing I need.But I need to get my psycho ex. out of my life, should I **** him over like he did to me, he's a liar and a cheat, and I'm tired of doing the right thing.
2006-07-19 05:48:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not is the sex is good, keep it up girl
2006-07-19 05:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by larythebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite alright for you to date, if you choose. but, I dont view your situation as twisted, if, you are truly just filling your own desires. However, if there is a reason behind it (to f*** him over, revenge) hten that is indeed twisted. TWO WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT! And you said you are tired of doing the right thing. the right thing being leaving yourself (emotions) open to be hurt or scorned. Or you are tired of doing the right thing by being obligated to your husband because the piece of paper that still unites the two of you. It can't be that good...unless you are numb to the fact that this is your husband you are not together as you should be, lovingly, unconditionally, but under false pretenses. The way your situation sounds to me it is as though you numb yourself before each encounter with him. And the reason i say this is because the invisible knife of a liar/cheater is being driven deeper into your heart..cause you still think about the fact that he broke those vows with infedlity, whether you admit that you do or not. We were made to forgive and forget, but no matter how hard we try we never FORGET but are forgiving of those we truly love. and i think it takes longer than any 6 months to do so. so, you have to ask yourself is this healthy for you and your heart....NO ITS NOT IT IS JUST GONNA STRESS YOU OUT MORE....why? because you have an agreement that 'you have left your husband/marriage'; so he is technically single and you are too...think about this...how would you feel now if he went on a date...or was with another woman.....HURT....because the wounds havent had the chan ce to heal.....JUST THINK ABOUT THE TURMOIL THAT IS BEING CREATED...i dont wish bad on anybody, but at least think of the consequences of continuing the way thing are now. But, also, communicate with him how you feel and/or would feel if this that or the other ws to happen.
And dont jus throw it away, because of others(from the outside looking in) opinion either.....friends, strangers, parents...... can not judge you...can only speak from their own experiences and what they think they might do if in your shoes...ME INCLUDED!!!!
GOOD LUCK WITH WHAT EVER YOU CHOOSE.
2006-07-19 07:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by DELICIOUS EYE CANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still sleeping with this man? Ex-husband or not you shouldn't be sexually involved with him unless you want to work things out with him, but the things that you wrote says you don't. How about you just stay single until you have your ex out of your system then you can date someone else. But stop sleeping with your ex it won't make anything better.
2006-07-19 05:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are haning on to the past and will never find your future that way. Crap or get off the pot, life is about making choices and it seems like you don't want to.
Get some counseling to find out why you need to be with a man who's a creep and get some self esteem.
2006-07-19 05:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should do to him what he has done to u. Once a liar always a liar and cheat. U just can't trust a person like that. I would defiantly f--k him over.
2006-07-19 05:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sturdy success to you. because you wanting to to grant it a second possibility, you mustn't were wondering about the previous. life should not be similar in case you keep wondering about it. The discomfort will always be there, no count how difficult he tries to erase it. it isn't elementary to overlook the dishonest. you mustn't have taken him lower back interior the first position, no count how abusive the female is, he chosen her. He knew you for 8 years, yet he wanting to be with the different female. you need to have let him burn in hell. because you probably did not, now you need to attempt to make it artwork.
2016-12-10 11:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really hate him that much then get out of it as soon as possable before it really does get to be twisted go on find some one else or just enjoy the single thing, but if ya hate him dont be sleepin w/ him, it can be a dangerous thing to be playin the field of hearts and anger, becareful and good luck
2006-07-19 05:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are separated and he is such a "psycho" and a "liar and a cheat" why are you prostituting yourself to him. Why would you have such low self esteem?
If you feel so negatively about him, then yes, this is twisted.
2006-07-19 05:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Linder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not twisted its stuped... if you still sleeping with him why break up?? well sometimes we women just dont like to go trough the process of starting new and our ex's are like an old pair of confortable shoes.. so that is why we keep sleeping with them.. but if the relationship is bad i would advice you to just break it up and move on.. is not bad to start over specially if you are not happy.good luck.
2006-07-19 05:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i feel the same. Just be the better person, just look out for u and kids if you have any. you will always suffer somekind of consequence for your actions. so just be cool and civil. as for sleeping with him, thats hard for everyone. Usually its the last or first thing to go!! it just sends mixed signals.
2006-07-19 05:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stoppp sleeping with him...you can sleep with any other guy without getting serious...what guy wouldnt wanna be with a girl just for sex...sry to sound so blunt. but your letting someone you care abt use you, and you're never gonna move on if thats the case...or buy a dil*do.
= )
2006-07-19 05:52:43 · answer #11 · answered by beautiful is a phase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋