we have sex everyday but nothing happens and i want to know what can we do
2006-07-19 05:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by ashley5101987 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You really dont need to have sex everyday...What you need to do is buy an ovulation test. Clearblue Easy Ovulation Test is one of the better ones. When you are ovulating is the only time that you can get pregnant. Try that and see if you get results!! Good Luck
2006-07-19 05:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best if you skip sex every other day. After he's deposited his donation... go take a quick pee... and lay down in bed and try to nap/sleep. Don't worry about propping yourself up higher on pillows... that won't have any real effect. Does your husband wear tight underware? You might want to have those guys dangling a bit lower and see if that makes a difference. Most important is to know your ovulation. If you know your cycle... and you know when you'll be expecting your next period... count back 14 days before you begin your period and that's your ovulation date. You are most fertile 2 days before, the day of, and the day after your ovulation. You could also invest in an ovulation predictor... roughly about $200... and you can get the strips from numerous online sources for about $50 per 100 pcs. My girlfriend tried for 2 years to get PG... and as soon as she got the equipment, she got PG during the first month.
If after all this, you still don't get results, have both yourselves checked out. Good luck... it always happens when you're least stressed, and least expected.
2006-07-19 05:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by VixenMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been trying. Also, having sex every day isn't always the best way to go about it. If you keep it down to 2-3 times a week then his sperm count will be higher. Also try to aim for those times when you are ovulating, usually a week or so before your period.
2006-07-19 05:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by firelily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler. You'll learn how to tell when (and indeed IF) you ovulate so you'll know when to best time intercourse. If you ovulate and cycle normally and you're still not getting pregnant, have your husband's sperm count checked. If it's low, you should have sex every other day during your fertile time so he has a chance to build up his sperm count in between. If you're cycling normally and his sperm count is normal and you're still not conceiving by having intercourse at the optimum time, then it's time to visit a specialist for help.
2006-07-19 08:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be trying to have sex on your most fertile days -- women ovulate about 14 days after their period. You can also use a fertility (or ovulation) monitor that you can buy in a pharmacy. Depending on how many months you have been trying, and your age, you should consult your OB or reg. physician to see if it is time to go to a fertility specialist. A fertility specialist will check both you and your husband to see where your difficulties are.
2006-07-19 05:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by tblee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and relax and actually enjoy the sex and each other. There's some kind of physiological thing where if the guy gets stressed out it actually decreases the chances of pregnancy.
2006-07-19 05:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by mommyem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. go see a Dr and start expensive treatments
OR
keep trying.
Everyone is different. It takes some women longer to get pregnant than it does others.
If after a few years it doesn't happen, I'd consider adoption.
2006-07-19 05:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean...that I too have been trying so now..im trying ovulex..you might want to look into it..im takeing that right now so hopefully in the next couple of months i will be pregnant..I have been trying for 10 months now and nothing..hopefully ovulex will help me..good luck.
2006-07-19 06:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by *sweetme* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, daily sex can reduce sperm counts. You might want to back it down to every other day so you get the most swimmers.
You might also have him checked for sperm count or see a fertility specialist in your area.
2006-07-19 05:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by carpetao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor
2006-07-19 05:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋