2006-07-19 05:16:43 · 14 answers · asked by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You just need to tell her that you would like to talk to her about something important. Be honest..tell her what you are feeling at the moment you are talking. Hopefully her reaction will be positive but be prepared for possibly a little disappointment. But if this happens, give her time. She will be happy in the end that she has a grandbaby on the way!!!!! You two can make it through it together but it will take teamwork!!!! If the father is wanting to be part of this that is great, if not don't give up you will always have family to help support you! Congratulations!!!
2006-07-19 05:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by MSHOTTIE 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell her all of the reasons you planned this pregnacy. If you are serious about being a mother, and have thought everything through, prove it to her.
A mom wants to know that you will be responsible for yourself and your child.
2006-07-19 05:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by joyful_psalmist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 08:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, congrats. 2nd, you need to get prenatal care for yourself. often young teens can get these services for free, you should definetly look into that right away. then show your mom that you are responsible beacuse you are on top of the situation. if there isn't a father in the picture prove to your mom you can handle this on your own. be strong. Stay healthy. good luck.
2006-07-19 05:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you got preg on purpose? at 19? with out being married? are you carazy? now think about how she is going to feel. do you think you should keep living in your mothers house being you are grown up enough to make these choices. i think you are grown up enough to talk to her. you need to expect that she is going to be pissed off and even spiteful. she has had to put up with your whiny teenage years and now you want her to handle another whiny baby are you out of your mind. if i were you i would tell her, but be prepared for a long nights arguement and hope she just wants another mouth to feed. sorry i love my children,but i cant wait for them to be out on their own.i do not want to have to stay working at my job till the day i die.i want to be able to do some things before my body is to old. well good luck i hope she wants to be a grandma, then you wont have to pay out so much for a babysetter while you are out looking for another baby maker boyfriend. children should grow up before they become parents. there is that what you wanted to get out of hearing. sorry!but you really should tell her she is going to figure it out on her own if she doesnt already suspect it. and there are things she may want to help you with. going to the drs. picking out crib and bassinet, blankies and bottles. women are very goofy and could go
either way so just go tell her and see which way she will go. hope she is a good woman and will be a happy grandma.
2006-07-19 05:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..u shouldn't have even done it at 19- and u have 2 tell her..abortion is wrong juss incase that crosses ur mind...just...sit her down..ask her a couple questions related 2 it..n tell her..better sooner than later
2006-07-19 05:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister was 19 when she was preg. she told my mother on the phone .....don;t do that .....just sit down and tell her like a responsible adult !
2006-07-19 05:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the longer you wait the harder it will be not only on you but stress is bad for your baby
2006-07-19 05:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by girlstimes2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner, and tell her over a nice meal.
2006-07-19 05:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her and next time do not have sex if you do not want to be in this situation.
2006-07-19 05:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋