Okay, I posted something in here a few days ago about my fiancee' and our breakup.(And that we are still living together) Okay, this will be kind of funny someday. One, we havent had any sexual contact in over 5 months. Two, she wasnt home and I was talking to a woman I met online and she coaxed me into phone sex. Well, there really wasnt much coaxing and it wasn't really phone sex, but for all puposes here, let's just say it was. Well, as soon as it was over my ex comes home. I did not expect her to be home, she was supposed to call me. She did not see anything at all, but she put two and two together. She is quite pissed. All of the sudden I am just like other men and I was cheating on her when we were engaged etc. I think it is just anger coming out. Thoughts, opinions? Please email me if you can si755 yahoo.com Thanks :)
2006-07-19 05:00:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is understandable that she would be angry. At least have the decency to wait until you aren't living together anymore. It is a respect thing. Don't flaunt the fact that you are already looking elsewhere. You probably wouldn't enjoy it if the shoe were on the other foot.
2006-07-19 05:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still living with your ex?
lol
You're never going to have a happy life as long as you are living with an ex. There is nothing you can do to make each other forget about the past, and all the old feelings. She can get mad if she wants - it is in her right.
You, on the other hand, need to move out, so you don't have to deal with her anymore. The fact you still haven't moved out says something about your maturity....but you really need to work out a solution that will allow you to do so. Don't give BS reasons like "I can't afford it, or the rent contract isn't up..."
Find a way and get on with your lives.
2006-07-19 12:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you guys broke up and but still living eachother. and no Sexual contact for over 5 months... it shows that you have nothing to do with her and she with you ..so that means that you free what ever you want to do and she do what ever she want to do.... I think it time for you to kick her out reason is that she didn't want to be yourlover and being a friend. so therefore she might seeing someone who knows. I could be wrong.
It time for you to kick her out and be single and you don't need that kind of stress. If you want her to stay with you then you made that choice.
2006-07-19 13:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, stop playing games with her and yourself, and be a man.
2006-07-19 12:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋