I am 25 and she has her own room but doesnt use it. stays with me and keeps on doing her work and never allows me to even invite my friends nor does she cooperate. She is elder to me by two years. It irritates me so much and we have attitude problems that we never flow insame direction.
2006-07-19 04:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by handyplast007 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
"I KNOW my family! That's why I don't live with them!"
Enough platitudes. You are obviously two very different people, at this stage in your lives. Maybe later, when you are both older, you'll get along better, and look back at "all this" and laugh. But for now, get out - get your own place.
2006-07-19 04:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by virgoascendant 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems the two of you need your own space. Seeing how your sister doesnt agree with it though shows that she is trying to make something or do something with the relationship between the two of you. But it sounds that because she is always on you that she is just trying to keep you in order. Do you do all of your work as she does or do you just like to loung around with friends. As the older sister she has a need to protect her little sister even if the little sister doesnt see it as the same way due to she fells like she is being picked on or given less options then she feels that she should.
2006-07-19 11:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both are grown adults, why not split up?. You say it is your house? Then she has the right to move and get on with her own life because this is just to much pressure here with the both of you under one roof. You know what I mean? She is trying to run your life and has no business doing so. I was on my own when I was 18!
There is no reason for her to be living with you unless you want her there. If that is the case than you both have to come to some common ground for peace to be restored in your home.
2006-07-19 12:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are adults, older/younger is moot. She's invading your space and making your life difficult. Kick her out if the place is yours. Take all of her things, put them in a box, and stick them in her room. Then go and get a deadbolt lock with a key for your door and use it frequently.
If she is using a computer that is yours, tough crap. Tell her to buy her own and stay out of your room.
2006-07-19 11:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by gg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to take a break from her or just go away for a while.
if that doesn't seem to work, try to talk to her about it, calmly.
i had that same problem with my sister, but we eventually outgrew it. i know it's really hard, but patience is really the best solution.
why don't you move into a different room in the house? or just switch rooms with her.
that fact that she's always with you, shows that she loves u and wants to spend time with you. maybe she's just too busy... ask her to lighten up and maybe take a day off or something and go out together...
hope this helps :)
2006-07-19 11:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to stay away from her but to say anything that would make u peeps get into the fights or just sit down with her and talk to her about that/the fight
2006-07-19 11:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. It's best to talk about your problems or at least ignore them.
2006-07-19 11:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pay all the bills and she pays nothing then what you need to do is EVICT HER .give her a 30-day notice and stick to it, DO NOT GIVE IN. i gave in once and have my free-loading heroin addict brother here
2006-07-19 11:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know u should shift in her room
2006-07-19 11:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by k_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wrks in ur room cant u go in her room?
2006-07-19 12:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋