i feel like my friend is crowding me and i kind want old best friend back but i still want her to be my friend

Question

becouse we have nothing in comon really but my old friendwas kinda mean to me wat should i do

Answer 1

I think the easiest thing is to be friends with them both.

I remember the "only allowed to have one best friend" game when I was in middle school. I think that the more good friends you have, the better. I have 3 best friends, and they are amazing.

If your friend is crowding you, talk to her about it. Tell her that you want some space. Keep planning things to do with her, but make sure that you have time with other friends.

As for the old friend that was mean...talk to her about it. Is it really worth it to have mean friends? Real friends will not treat you badly.

Answer 2

If you feel was mean or unhealthy, perhaps you should just move on, even though you still have feelings for the one friend. Everyone has something in common with somebody look for the similar interests in each other. Or the other option is you could try to be friends with both of them.

Answer 3

just stay with ur best friend,and us didnt have to have things in common u could still b friends and if shes gainging up with some of her other friends leave he u could make friends and talk to her about this she'll understand u!

Answer 4

Get a life.

Answer 5

I have the same problem! When you find out how to deal tell me!

Answer 6

i think nither of them are your real friends.
you need some time alone.
Be alone, think about yourself, think about people effecting your life, and think about what is "friends".

Answer 7

such a girl question, why not just grow up and be an adult about it?

Answer 8

at least you have a frend