My aunt walked in on me other day while I was masturbating. What should I do? Has any women ever caught a man masturbating?
2006-07-19 03:32:12 · 14 answers · asked by jbasham35 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
As a school teacher I have walked in on literally dozens of youths of both sexes in the middle of the act. I am always surprised how big a risk kids will take but then again the urge can be very powerful at that age and waiting until they have totally assured privacy may not be an option. Guys are usually easier to spot than girls for the obvious reason that they usually have their erections out of their pants and that sort of makes it obvious what is happening. Girls can be very obvious too though with flushed faces, panting, clothing pulled up to expose themselves and even hands in action when discovered. One incident that sticks in my mind was of a young Asian girl called Purminda. I heard what sounded like sobbing coming from a walk-in store cupboard while 'on patrol' during lunch. At first I thought it was a girl crying and so I opened the door to see what I could do. There lying on the floor before me was this 15 year old, skirt up, panties round her knees, going at it like crazy. I don't know which of us was more embarrassed!
2006-07-21 20:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes women catch sons, husbands, lover, nephews, neighbor boys all the time. You do not need to do anything. It is embarrassing and your aunt probably will not say anything. Most adult women know that men and boys do this. In the future make sure your privacy is secure. If your aunt does say anything listen carefully and then move on. She actually should apologize for invading your private moment. If anyone tells you that you should not masturbate they are wrong. Masturbation is normal and healthy and has a lot of benefits. So keep it up and enjoy your sex life.
2006-07-19 07:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that is crazy! Its happened to me! But by my boyfriend! Too bad it wasn't some hot girl next door! I have caught my brother before and its not that embarrassing! You could have been caught doing something worse! Its a part of life and I am sure ur Aunt KNOWS what it is all about! Just don't shake her hand with the one you used! lol Dont be so embarassed! It will pass! One day u will look back and laugh! Carry on like nothing happened! Next time lock the door!
2006-07-19 03:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cassandra J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 my friends mom caught me but she was way cool about it and talked to me and said that it was OK and that everyone does it, so I asked her if she ever did it and she said yes.
She then showed me how she did it and did it to me. That led to full blown sex and it was GREAT.
I kept my mouth shut about this and we did it a few times for a few months. My friend never knew about this nor did anyone else.
She moved away after a few months and I cried like a baby, my friend thought I was crying about him leaving. I will always remember her fondly. The things she taught me made me a good lover (or so I have been told) thru out my life.
I still miss her.
2006-07-20 08:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by parshooter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never caught a man doing it but my roommate in college and I was walked in on by my mom when I was younger and first experiencing it. I'd just let it alone. If she doesn't mention it then I wouldn't. She knows its a normal act and I'm sure she has or does it herself. FYI Make sure you lock the door. I learned that the embarrassing way.
2006-07-19 04:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hadn't been your aunt, it could have been a real sexual experience. Whe is probably more embarrased then you are. Just forget about it.
2006-07-19 03:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i walked in on my brother and he looked embarrassed. I just looked him in the eyes, looked down, smiled, and told him to finish. Everyone does it, what the big deal?
2006-07-21 05:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m asking where the did you perform this act that she was able to catch you . o man you r disgusting you should all the hell in the toilet.
2006-07-19 04:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by rockin_005_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where were you that your aunt was able to catch you in the act??
2006-07-19 03:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I GUESS YOU WERE SO EMBARRASSED AT THAT MOMENT BUT IT HAPPENS. TELL YOUR AUNT SORRY & PROMISE NOT TO DO IT AGANE. IF YOU MEAN IT AND WORK TOWARDS IT, YOU WILL STOP IT. IT DOES NOT PAY TO MASTURBAT
2006-07-19 03:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Alandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋