why do you even think like this?
2006-07-19 03:28:07
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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That's tough. If he's cheating on you, chances are there will be some telltale sign unless he's VERY sneaky about it. Here are some of the warning signals: (1) He tells you he's having to work later or more hours, which may be true but usually isn't, (2) He calls at the last minute and begs off dates with you for some unavoidable problem that "just came up," (3) He gets calls on his cell phone and tries to get out of earshot of you, (4) He becomes more private and protective of his cell phone, E-mail, voicemail, etc. -- not that you should be invading his privacy and checking any of those things, but if he starts getting paranoid about them when you're around, the alarm bells should be going off, (5) He wants to spend a lot more time with "friends," (6) He doesn't want to visit you or have you visiting with him during times when he would normally want to hang out with you, (7) He becomes distant or seemingly uninterested in you when the two of you are together, (8) He gets a lot more nit-picky about things you say or do that annoy him.
This is not an all-exhaustive list, and he may exhibit any of these behaviors without cheating on you. However, if he's consistenly displaying three or more of these behaviors, be on your guard.
2006-07-19 10:33:12
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answered by sarge927 7
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Take a little time to do some investigating. When he says he's going over a friends house, stop by to see if he is really there. or even ask if you can tag along. If he freaks out by you asking that is questionable. Check his laundry pockets for numbers, movie tickets and restaurants receipts for two. Get in good with his best bud, once your are tight with him he will not be able to lie for your boyfriend. When your boyfriend comes in from a late night of hanging out, don't let him run to the shower, meet at the door and lead him straight to bed. If he insist on taking a shower or having to use the bathroom, go with him to see what he is in such a rush to get rid of. And if all else fails, men are stupid and soon or later he will tell on his self. Just keep your eyes open and mouth shut.
2006-07-19 10:45:29
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answer #3
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answered by trina 2
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you cant tell by looking at him, but they say there are sertain signs: he doesnt stick to plan, he comes late, he uses fake excuses, you catch him lying, he is preoccupied....
You can ask him and talk to him about this feeling that you have, and if there is something wrong - will he tell you? Often there is a reason for cheating to take place. Some times guys have to cheat to get the feeling that they are attractive. If you show him your affection, telling that you care and that you are afraid to lose him - without clinging to him - ?
Good luck
2006-07-19 10:30:23
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answered by Tones 5
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You cant, you will never know. You can have a friend check up on him, but maybe she ends up "hooking up" with him and figures you ll never find out. He could even not cheat on you and tell you he did so you will leave. You will never ever know. Somebody could lie to you saying that he did so you will leave him so they can hook up with him. You will never know for sure. Any ways 99 out of 100 guys will cheat given the right situation. Anyone who says they wouldn't, is lying to you, I know it, they know it, every male knows it But they will lie to you and swearer by it, But do not listen. You have no choice but to get over it! Live with it! Love it or leave it. . I'm sorry but that's all their is to it. so assume he is and hope he is not, but he is and you will never know. So don't let it bother you enjoy your relationship and don't wast precious time letting jealousy eat away at you, it will end up destroying your relation.
Any ways you will just never know..
2006-07-19 10:53:30
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answer #5
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answered by fred p 3
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Well,
If you don't see him much he could be cheating on you.
2006-07-19 10:29:00
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answered by Sharkboy 1
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there is no real cheat unless you are married. He never vowed he be forever your partner.
2006-07-19 10:29:01
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answer #7
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answered by Gingerbread Man 3
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if he always tell you " i love you" all the time .
OR"the Most Reliable way "
say "My Friend see you with another girl" and you will have the answer on his face.
2006-07-19 10:37:42
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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you can tell when he is not coming to the movies with you on time, he is not listening to you, etc.
2006-07-19 10:29:34
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answered by Anonymous
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see what he does get one of your best friends to flirt with him and see what he does just remember to trust her
2006-07-19 10:30:16
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answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4
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If you suspect he is cheating on you then he probably is .......
2006-07-19 10:28:49
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answered by RedCloud_1998 6
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