I am 14 and i can't tell if i am pregnant.please help?

Question

i am 14 years old and i can't tell if i'm pregnant. i had sex(using a condom though)on july 7th. my last period was on june 23rd.right now it's july 19th.my period has been late for 6 days now and that is not normal for me at all.my period is usually like clockwork.i get it exactly every 4 weeks.and i have had symptoms that aren't normal to me at all like spotting for half a day with my period, really tender boobs, acid reflux,and some nausea during the day.and dull back aches.i took 2 home pregnancy tests and the both came out negative, but i still haven't gotten my period.please help.thanks

Answer 1

you aren't pregnant
it is perfectly normal for a 14 year old to have a late period or even miss a period
obviously, you should stop having sex until you are old enough to understand the consequences

Answer 2

This can be signs of growing up too. It's called growing pains you get them from the day your born until you stop growing, most of them you can't even tell your having. You are not pregnant, if you were the tests would have seen it by now, the hormone that the test is looking for doubles every two days and after a week of being pregnant the test would have found it!!! Even if you took the test in the middle of the day! No worries, just stop having SEX!!! This should teach you a lesson!

I skip all the time!

OK! I have to add after reading some of the other answers..

the pregnancy test they give you at the doctors office is the same test as you buy at the store! I have asked before, the only one that you can take at the DR's that is just a bit better then a urine test is the blood test and they will not do it without some reason why something might not be right!

Answer 3

Home pregnancy tests aren't as sensitive as ones given by an MD. Please go to a clinic or, if you feel comfortable, your family doctor.

Also, please reconsider whether now is a good time in your life to be sexually active. Pregnancy is the natural consequence of sex. I won't bother to mention all the unnatural consequences of sex. I will point out that at 14, your body is not fully prepared to carry and nurture a child.

Having a child is obviously something you are not ecstatic about. Condoms do break, people forget to take their birth control, all sorts of things can happen to get you pregnant. Consider the life you want for any children you eventually have and realize that you cannot provide that right now, nor are you in a place where you can fully enjoy having a child.

Finally, if someone is pressuring you to have sex against your will, please call a youth helpline in your city or town.

Answer 4

Just give it another week or so and if nothing happens then you should go to the doctor. Sometimes I get aches, pains and nausea before I start my period. The stress from worrying about being pregnant could be causing your period to be thrown off. If the pregnancy tests are negative then you're probably not but it could be too early to tell so I would just wait. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well firstly you said your last period was on June 23rd so how are you 6 days late.. even if your cycle is 28 days you should be due for your period tomorrow... If you used a condom, and it did not break or anything you should be okay... correct me if im wrong, but it takes two full weeks to get pregnant (the fetus implants itself into the uterus in 2 weeks) so you shouldnt be, but you should go see the doctor so you can be sure...

Answer 6

First off, 14 and having sex? Ouch. Glad you used protection though!

You are probably under a lot of stress right now. When you are stressed out, your period tends to be late. If you took two preg tests and they came out negative thats good. But if you still feel that you're pregnant, go to the Dr and have them check you out. Acid Reflux can be from stress too. Stress can do all sorts of stuff to your body, including your period be late.

Please, you're way too young to be having sex. Be a child and enjoy your youth!!! You'll regret it later when you're older.

Answer 7

well at least you are using condems that is something - it is unlikely you are pregnant unless the condom burst. You're body is still going through changes and although in the past your periods may have been regular things like stress can change this. Try to stop worrying unless you have had unprotected sex or if the condom burst and things should come out ok. Please be very carefull as you may sound quite adult but your body is still that of a child and too young to be carrying a child of its own

Answer 8

First sweetie, you need to let an adult (preferably your mother, or guardian) know what is going on. Then it could be stress also. Make a doctors appointment to get yourself checked out properly and if you are not pregnant then start using some form of birth control. At the age of 14 is way to young to become a mother. You have your whole life ahead of you sweetie, don't grow up to fast too soon.... Good luck to you.

Answer 9

hey babe, there's one last alternative you can do, which i did. My period was worst den you, it was late for a month when the test i did was negative.

You buy pineapple and COKE (a can). Boiled the Coke in a pan. Den when the coke is boiling, you add a few slice of Pineapple. when it is Like cooking, den you turn off the fire, you drain the pineapple out, into a cup. So the cup will have coke with pineapple flavour. It dont taste bad. Den drink it warm. I gurantee u will come ur menses within the next few days!!!

Answer 10

I think you are guilting yourself into false symptoms. If you took the tests according to the directions and they came back false then stop worrying. Your mind can control how your period works out.

Glad it was PROTECTED sex and I'm not going to lecture you on how young you are to be having sex and all that but keep up the condom use and you might want to get on the pill or something too.

Answer 11

You are nervous about it and that is enough to cause all of your symptoms. Take the next week and relax and don't worry about it at all. If you miss 2 months, then it is time to start taking more tests.
It's annoying to hear all these people chanting "You're 14! It's too young to have sex!" Honestly, how many of them were sexually active teens? Listen, a condom probably isn't going to keep you safe, so if you are going to continue to have sex, please go to your doctor or a clinic and get a better plan.