Theres a boy at school that i like but my best friend already went with him they broke up but she still has fellings for him.
2006-07-19 03:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't do anything, especially if you know your friend still has feelings for him, she is not over the breakup and is still hurting over the issue....
2006-07-19 03:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE. I have 3 best friends that we had been friends for over 28 years. The reason we have all stayed best friends is because we vowed in middle school that we would NEVER date or even go out with the others ex's. Guys will come and go but Ur true friends will be with U always. A friendship is NOT something to take lightly, my friends have been there for me when "NO MAN" would. So let this guy go. Ur friends feelings are more important. There are plenty of other guys and U have PLENTY of time, don't loose a friend over a guy. That's one thing that seperates us from guys is the fact that we DO care about other peoples feelings especially our friends.
Good Luck!!!
2006-07-19 03:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Miss Bossy_Hottie, hard question, but that's always what I'm looking for.
Ask him out. He isn't your friend's property. He can date who he wants, when he wants. And worrying about it now is stupid because you don't even know if he is interested in you.
Hope that advice seems right to you, because I sure spent a lot of time on it. Good luck, my dear. You could and should get any guy at school if you're such a hottie, as you say.
2006-07-19 03:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be - the sea is huge and there are many fish in the sea. No boy is worth the risk of losing a girlfriend. You will go through life and you will always needs your girlfriends, your sisters, and your mother!
2006-07-19 03:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mm...I think you should talk to your best friend first about it before going for the boy you like.
I mean...friendship can last longer than love relationship...if the guy is not worth it, you can lose both, your bestfriend and guy.
But if you go and talk to your friend, and she's okay...go for it!
2006-07-19 03:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok love..I understand you fears...If she still likes him and you go for him and get him.Will she still be your friend..Who knows...Live is all about taking chances....Talk to her if you are truely worried about it and see what she say's
Be careful tho, She may say she has no feelings just to thro you off....You only know the two involved.......Go with your gut feelings.....You are a young lady ....You will do fine.....
2006-07-19 03:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by tanear1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it or just wait till she looses that fling of a feeling for him then u can go out with him,but u should ask her first and talk to her about the way u feel,and shell talk 2 u about her feeling
ull sort it out after all she IS ur best friend
GOOD LUCK*
2006-07-19 03:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend dated him, its not a good idea to go out with him also. It never turns out nice in the end.
2006-07-19 03:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by kristin22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. He isn't your friend's property. He can date who he wants, when he wants. And worrying about it now is stupid because you don't even know if he is interested in you.
2006-07-19 03:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok ...if you like that person than it is most important that you have to show your feelings to him...if you done it before than he must not gone with your friend... now also its not too late... go ahead...
coolboy:)
2006-07-19 03:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by coolboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋