Loved a man a lots..loved him from my heart...took him to be everything in my life..had high idea about our future. Finally he turned out to be the worst of all. Worst part is I have also had sex with him..is it wrong to have sex outside the wedding lock? He ditched me..left me high and dry...was very bad on me..he likes only sex..no commitment in life..tell me how to forget him?
2006-07-19 03:06:56 · 18 answers · asked by Ginnypid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need time.
Focus on the good things you have going on in your life. If you don't have anything good, then find some. A hobby or passion for starters. Don't fall too fast into another relationship. That can be a disaster if you are still healing. It is much easier said than done, but you just have to keep on going into your future and take control. If you have beliefs about sex before marriage then "stick to your guns." Don't let someone make you think otherwise. You may never forget this guy, but you are stronger & wiser because of your expierence with him. We sometime learn something valuable about life through a pain.
~Good luck & Be strong~ You can do it.
2006-07-19 03:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Saffron♥Daydream♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear of your sorrows. You will, in time get over it. Rather than focus on the loss, focus on what you learned from this relationship and what "not" to do in the next one. Sex is something that should be shared between two married people. If a person loves you they will respect you (your mind and body), and share that contact with you only when married. Unfortunately many people (both men and women) will use "I Love You" as a reason to have sex; when they don't really mean "I Love you and want to spend my life with you".
Look at this time in your life as a learning lesson.
2006-07-19 03:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as I keep telling the lady that I am with now there's a difference between sex and making love. When you have sex to a woman its bonding and that’s why your heart aches but in time your heart will heal. Love and sex are different. Sex is just a release and love is a bonding where two hearts beat as one. I know it’s deep but just take time and let your feelings settle.
Good luck love will find you!
2006-07-19 03:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U urself are saying that he likes only sex and has no commitment in life and that he was high and dry..are these not enough to make u forget him...arise and awake from ur slumber and u will see light very soon....its difficult to forget someone u love so much but hez a jerk..so u should forget
2006-07-19 03:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by lillyqwe2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex out of wed lock--yea, not so good but forgivable! Just keep telling yourself that you deserve more and don't settle for something that you don't have to! As long as a guy is "getting it" then he'll change for ya but the act will be over soon! So, get to know the guy for atleast a half year before you have sex...and don't tell him your plan either...But just tell your self your were better than him and he wanted you for all the wrong reasons...go out more..do some crafts and stuff to keep your mind off of him!
2006-07-19 03:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by lil_grizzly_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with you, but i think you do not need somebody to propose an outlet from this situation, what you can do as a grown up girl is to learn the lesson and proceed with your life. But friend next time be sure you expose what your expectations are from a relation with your partner and get his point of view, you might be setting standards for others to follow, you should know different people have diverse views towards relationship. Please communicate more next time.
2006-07-19 03:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Progress Trader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie i know what u going thru.I dated a guy for 3 years, i left him a couple weeks ago.He phone's me up twees later to tell me his going to b a dad.Have u got any idea what it felt like.....???
I love this guy, i was destroyed.
But guess what a lot of good has come out of this i met a guy over a chat line.And he is great he's a brain surgeon and thing is looking up for me.
Only u can decide to move on and make your life better.Its hard believe me.But there is someone better out there...
Lots of love from someone that knows what u r going thru...
2006-07-19 03:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dragongirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside marriage is not allowed, but in God's eyes we are forgiven...Just come out that relationship with ur two feet and plz avoid getting into other relationship before U are healed...
2006-07-19 03:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time alone and time to heal for YOU. It is best now that you found out what kind of man he was. The right man is out there. He will find you. Take time off for you and give your self some time to grieve. You will be fine with time. Good Luck
2006-07-19 03:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by ncbound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd truly say getting ur heart damaged is one hundred circumstances worse than breaking a heart. i have experienced both circumstances. even as u damage someone's' heart u may experience undesirable for a short even as yet that wud be it as u didnt quite love that individual, in the different case u wudnt have damaged his heart. yet once ur heartbroken, it sucks! u will attempt to hate the fellow who broke ur heart yet u will finally end up loving him better, wanting him better and hunting for excuses for his action. It takes u verrrry lengthy to get over it in spite of the indisputable fact that it differs from one individual to a special (it took me abt 3 yrs)
2016-12-01 22:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by radabaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋