what if some one is talking marriage ad then u come to know he is cheating on u ? i do nt know what to do?

Question

Have been going out since almost 2 yr now , may be a few months more .. we ar talking of getting married ad both side of the family know ab us but one day i get a call from my bro that he saw my bf with a gal in a club smooching around ad acting like a couple , ad when asked this to my bf he does agree to it ad then their is more as their have been other flings in the past also .. this is a long distance relationship by the way .. Now i do nt know what to do , he is saying sorry over ad over again but some now it is nt effecting me at all it seems i am dead from inside , he did send me flowers ad a few other things ad is calling me again ad again .. he did nt do all this befor ad he is saying that he wants to work this out i should give him a chance . i have been really rude to him since i have come to know this ,ad if i come to think ab it ..
if it would have a guy who cared a **** ab it then he would nt have taken my rude way of talking bec i can really be a ***** with my words

Answer 1

Continue to be rude to him, my dear. He deserves every word. AND tell your family and his that you're not going to marry the cheater..and don't marry him. If you can't trust him now, you won't be able to trust him later when you have children. Be brave and do what is right for you. Tell him you're not marrying him, and not to call you anymore. Don't take his calls or his flowers! Cut off communication with him and he will get the message loud and clear. Consider this a 2-year lesson in life and find someone you can love and trust who respects you. This guy doesn't respect anyone but himself.

Answer 2

All I know to tell you is to just ignore him, I do belive that everyone is intitled to a second chance, but also there is the saying once a cheater always a cheater. And also he can't say that he felt bad about cheating on you, because he has been doing it for such a long time.