2006-07-19 02:37:54 · 28 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because they feel like they should have waited for the person they really love?
2006-07-19 02:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, Rachel, such a psychological question! Evidently, those who wish they were still virgins either a) feel they are not as attractive as they were under their virgin status, b) want to relive the initial experience with what they know now, c)regret the whole sexual experience and wish they had never had anything to do with it, or d) possibly some other reason not heretofore mentioned.
2006-07-19 02:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much time do we waste worrying over the first time we ever drove a car? Even if we had a car wreck we can never go back and not know what it's like to drive a car again.
Really, it's just the first time you had sex, so now you've had sex. Move on to some other thing you've never done before and don't worry about it. Life is about experiences, and everything has a first time. Sometimes we'd all like to go back and undo something, but we can't. Can you imagine how ridiculous our world would be if we could all just hop back and forth in time doing, undoing, redoing our lives?
2006-07-19 03:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by vvxxzzvv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually caused by feelings of guilt because they weren't "raised that way" and feel that they should have waited until they were married. The other scenario is that the person that they lost their virginity to wasn't a virgin (so it was no big deal) and that person made the virgin feel like it was nothing special (and hurt the person's feelings).
2006-07-19 02:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shopgirl9337 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*~Mild Interpretation~*
Mike:Hey virginia! whats happening?
Virgina:I want my virginity back! T.T
Mike:Why? I thought you and john were doing well?
Virginia:I know, we had sex and he told me he love me so much and would never let me go..
Mike:Did he dump you or did you see him with another woman?
Virginia:.......No!
Mike:Then why are you angry?
Virginia:It`s that..I love John too but I saw this one guy on the coffee shop who was twice as better as john in terms of Style,Popularity,Looks,Charisma,Success,Intellect,Strenght,
Financial Capabilities,Sense of Humor,Ettiqutte,Cool Factor and body figure.
Mike:.....So? what about it?
Virginia:*sigh*....nothing, I just want my virginity back..
Mike:Thats why I`am asking why?
Virginia:It`s because I saw a much better john elsewhere.
Mike:*sigh*...Virginia, even if you ever get your virginity back(which is impossible), that wont change a thing even if the guy you saw accepted you because if you saw another person which has thrice the values with the one you mentioned, its De ja vu all over again.
Virginia:I guess your right...I should be content with what I have because this is my life`s decision and I`ve chosen this with my own will and heart...Thanks mike!
Mike:No Problem! :D
(Get what I mean? xD)
2006-07-19 03:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kent Ishii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because God has made that everyone has a concious. His perfect plan is for people to wait until they are married.
I believe everyone knows better, but because it's wrong and a lot of peer preasure and also that's what everyone is doing, they do it.
And once you lose it, you can never get it back. And after you have sex, you will want sex more. And if you are not married, that can be a real problem!
2006-07-19 02:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is all too human to yearn for an innocence that never existed. Virginity is a landmark for a period in one's life that is simpler and purer, though I think we can all agree that sex is not the only act that makes someone unpure.
2006-07-19 02:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by nickkaters 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they have grown to be more mature in their decision making and now realize that the choice to have sex is a big decision that you have to live with the rest of your life. Maybe they realize that on their wedding night that their first time would be soooo much more special if they hadn't already "been there and done that". If I could change my decision I probably would.
2006-07-19 03:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by T.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this condition can only occur when they themseles realize hat they wasted something that was so close and so important not only to theirbody but to their core soul.
thus when they meet a person who feels heaven made for them they understand that they shouldnt have given up their virginity in just a thought of a second
2006-07-19 02:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by paladin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it wasn't all it was cracked up to be the first time then later in life you find someone special you wish you would have waited for .
2006-07-19 02:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by aquaris01975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get pushed into sex some might have been raped. But, either way they wish it didn't happen because they may have wanted to wait for true Love to find them.
2006-07-19 02:43:02 · answer #11 · answered by michigan_redneck_lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋