Is there anywhere I can go, other than a monastery, to escape females?

Question

I am not gay. I want pussy as much as the next man; however, I am not getting it. Not only that, but girls my age go out of their way to avoid me and be mean to me, which has really taken a toll on my self-esteem (especially when I see how flirtatious they are around OTHER guys). I cannot take any more of this. My sanity is slipping and I need to live a hermitary lifestyle so that I can enjoy life. I can't even have privacy inside my own home anymore, as female drivers look inside my window and accelerate when they pass my residence.

As attractive as joining an abbey seems, I want to live as a recluse not out of religious reasons, but because I covet inner peace. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Answer 1

Role playing clubs (IE Dungeons & Dragons, not Hans and the Milkmaid) are normally free from Girls, well girly Girls anyway.
They tend to be drinkers too :)

Answer 2

I had to read your statement about 15 times.
And I'm not going to be mean (some people will be, I guarantee it!) but I will be very clear---dude, please go speak to someone about this. You mention your sanity is slipping, then state that women drive past your home, look at you and then zoom away--that might be paranoia setting in. Not a good thing.
Maybe you just need a break from everyone and everything, take 10 deep breaths and go share what you've written to us--to someone else--like a parent, a teacher, a social worker, someone, anyone.

Answer 3

The French Foreign Legion

Answer 4

Whoa fella, you have women pegged wrong. You may have immature women around you and that is something that you'll have to come to grips with, but once you know or learn how to handle them, you'll be in like flint.

They can be catty, especially if they think you like them or show any interest in them. If on the other hand, you look at them as if they stink, or are misshapen or are mutuants or that you wouldn't dirty your hands touching them, they turn to themselves wondering what's wrong with them. Unfortunately, you can't be salivating one day and wake up to how to treat them and begin scorning them the next. It is a long process and one that you should begin to put into place.

Finding someone who has the same interests as you, someone quiet, you'll find her in the library with spectacles on and maybe not the best body structure, but, she will not put you through the changes the others do. That is the one to befriend, as a friend, she will then give you insight on how to deal with the ones that you can't come to terms with. Do not befriend someone who finds you sexy and then give them the position of friend - that won't work. Just try it. I've converted many a geek and nerd, just by them finding out what they are capable of and using their God given talents to know what is in the female psyche and know their own limitations. Have fun. Need more indepth training e-mail me.

Answer 5

Women as a species...we are evil...aren't we.....you poor thing. Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places. I'm not sure what your age is..but try going to someplace out of the ordinary to meet people. If your going to bars or single clubs.....try something different, like coffee houses or internet cafes'.......or find a hobby that will help you interact with people who have the same interests you do.......You dont really want to live as a recluse....your just have a streak of bad luck...instead of giving into it....take control of it and change your own destiny.......Good luck

Answer 6

If you have TRULY given up ALL hope in females, then you should consider a therapist.
If that's a no, try talking to a friend.
If THAT is a no, try joining a religious group, like you said...why do you think nuns do it? They're probably sick of MEN turning them down.
But that's my unknowing side speaking.
Honestly...just wait until the perfect woman comes along. She's there...
I was here for my love when he was in great despair.

Answer 7

Buddhism's all about inner peace...try joining one of THEIR monestaries.

Um, other than that, don't be so hard on yourself. I'll admit I'm not an attractive person, and got that hammered into my head ALL through grade school and high school. Two years into college I've met a wonderful man and we're getting married. :) You need to remind yourself that you are an awesome person, and there are people in the world who will love you for it. Sorry you haven't met any of them yet. Keep your chin up.

Answer 8

I am sorry, but what do you mean female drivers look inside your window and accelerate when they pass by? I find that hard to believe. What are they seeing to make them do that? Are you sure it is not your imagination, being fueled by your other anxieties about females? Can you buy heavy curtains for your windows, so you don't have to see people driving by? I feel bad for you, but for god sake, get a grip. People (men or women) aren't all that bad.

Answer 9

Get some pussy, on a budget. Maybe you will change your mind about the whole nun thing. Girls like money. Invite one out on a date, spend a couple of dollars. If that doesn't work, try escorts, prostitutes, whatever it takes to get up your sex drive. Are you afraid of woman's plump ***** and bulging clits? What the hell are you afraid of?

Answer 10

is this something that really bothers you? if it is then I am very sorry for how you feel.
I will tell you that if this does not stop, after you graduate consider moving to a foriegn country. Girls in third world countries will find you attractive just because you are foriegn, and try to get with you based on that.