I am friends with a girl and i like her and i think she likes me. i go to a school and everyone tells everyone in secrets their relatins and i dont want to be embarrased what do i do????
2006-07-19 02:15:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you like her. Tell her that you want to spend time with her after school. Don't tell her that you want to be her boyfriend because you might scare her away. Tell her you want to date and see what happens. And don't write her notes, you never know who ends up reading them. If you ask a friend to tell her she might think you are scared of doing it yourself. So be your own man and forget about all those thoughts in your head about making an *** of yourself in front of her, she will dig that you dig her. And in the small chance she says no, be proud of having asked her out. It takes a lot of courage to that when you are 11.
2006-07-19 02:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This time in your life is tough. Kids are mean to each other. Always remember its not a secret if more than one person knows so keep it to yourself and you have nothing to worry about. Treat people with respect and the way you would like to be treated. Don't let it get to you. You'll have a few years of this then it gets better. Promise.
2006-07-19 09:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by angielj67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i would ignore the secerts becuase there isn't a school in the world where no secerts are spread around. I personally dont care what people say in secerts
1. people change them as they spead
2. people that do have nothing better to do.
However if the girl does like you and people make jokes etc. you could ignore or say "it ok to have a girl thats a friend...
Smile :) and Take Care
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2006-07-19 09:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u like her more then a friend and c how she feels thats if u realy need a gf i mean at ur age(11) i think u need 2 stop worring about gf and go one with ur life like ur grads and ur friends and family i mean i cant talk ether im 13 and i have a bf but trust me it is not fun all the time theres alot of things u got to look out for(not trying 2 b mean just saying)
2006-07-19 09:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m going to be real blunt with you, ask the girl out, and who cares what they say about you or your relatioship? You can only be embarrased if you let yourself be embarrased.
2006-07-19 09:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by loyalqgoblin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't tell anyone your secrets when you go to school. Some things are personal. Remember you are only 11l, you have your life ahead of you. Good Luck.
2006-07-19 09:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doen't tell anyone some things r personal and just tell the girl u like u like her bc maybe some other boy will make his first move!
2006-07-19 12:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Pebbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just part of being a kid.All you can do is ask.If she likes you it will be if not your only 11 you have the rest of your life to date.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-19 09:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try telling her that you like her,then see how she feels,if she likes you back or not don't worry about what everybody else thinks.Be proud of yourself for being able to express yourself,it's shows that your growing up.You'll be okay,you'll see.
2006-07-19 09:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch her or knock her down. Then she will know you like her. And the others wouldnt make fun of you as long as she doesnt beat you up.
2006-07-19 09:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋