Well she has issues honestly. Because she keeps treating me like I did something really bad to her. I don't know what obviously so I sent her an email asking her to come clean about it. She won't respond and I'm courious as to why. I ran into her yesterday fo the first time im 17 year sand she was not happy yo see me. She was wating for the same bus as I was. And I was with my kids and fiance. She walked to the other bus stop to get on a differnt bus. I know she can't stand me because of the look she gave me it was an I can't stand you/ jelaous look. I don' get it can you give me you point of veiw on this? I still think it has to do with a guy I dated years ago. He was never her man and she turned him down completley and we were never really friends so what in the world crawled up her butt? It's a shame she's still acting this wayafter so many years I don't get why she's so bent over this. We had a good friendship but she betrayed my trust and it just got worst come prom time.
2006-07-19
01:46:47
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Yes the same guy that I dated took me to prom we dated right out of high school. If you could've seen the look on her face when he asked me. She liked him but she turned him down. So he asked me and we hit it off obviously. Everybody new she liked him at the same time I did. Thing is that she acts like I betrayed her we where never really firneds she got friendly the day of the prom she had the nerve to ask me not to go with me ex to the prom so she could go with him ans I said no way! I made it clear to her that he was mine and there was no changing that. I think it really ticked her off look at her now alone with two cats.
2006-07-19
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Just so that you know I gave up on her. I just hate that things ended up the way they did.
2006-07-19
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If you hadn't seen her in 17 years, then how can she keep treating you like anything? You need to let go of this (I know it's hard, especially when you feel like you don't know what happened). You're both grown-ups now.
2006-07-19 01:52:51
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answered by pugluvr 2
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Just email her back and let her know you're concerned about her. I hate it when people refuse to email again unless you reply to their last email. Sometimes people get forgetful or truly didn't have anything to say, especially if they're going through a tough time.
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answered by ? 4
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Forget everything... Just lift the phone and talk to her, But it would be really neat if you could go and meet her at her place, And if you really wanna be her friend all over again,then please just tell her that you are sorry for anything and everything you have done to her intentionally or unintentionally to her, And also tell her you would like to carry on the friendship you'll had when you'll were young
If she is not OK with it then just leave her to herself .. and maybe one day she will realize what she has lost.
2006-07-19 01:58:05
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answered by Advice for all 2
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If she is really your friend I think you need to call her and try and set up a face to face meeting. If she refuses you just have to let it go. Some fences can't be mended, but you will at least know that you tried.
2006-07-19 01:52:55
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answered by mandp 4
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normally i would say keep trying, but as i read through yer explannation...it seems the friendship was severed years ago
I say let it go and move on as this person evidently does not want to be yer friend anymore
if you have wronged them in some way, ask for their forgiveness, but still...you can not force someone to be yer friend, and would ya want to anyway? friendship comes naturally and it seems this one ended long ago
my quistion is why aren't you letting go?
be cool...
2006-07-19 01:53:46
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answered by CC Babydoll 6
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17 years have gone by? For heaven's sake, both of you need to move on with your lives.
2006-07-19 01:49:35
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answered by kja63 7
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Give it up! Take the hint! She obviously doen't want any contact with you and I don't understand why you would want to have contact with her. Move on!
2006-07-19 01:52:46
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answered by I'manalienfrog 5
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well maybe her computer aint working and she cant go on the internet and because of that she cant reAD YOUR MESSAGE. so the next time you see him or her ask her if her internet is working.
2006-07-19 01:58:34
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answered by mconnor_23 1
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you dont call a person like that a friend!!! well, move on and forget about her,... at least you know what really happend
2006-07-19 01:54:52
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answered by ings 4
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You can do NOTHING about this, since you have NO control over your friend's actions.
2006-07-19 01:49:47
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answered by WC 7
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