I am Palestinian girl. I engaged to an American 2 months ago while he was spending his vacation here in Palestine. We signed the merrage contract before he left, and we planned to do the wedding in the next February. I ask you to read the following paciently and then give what you advise me to do please.
Before few days he sent me the following email:
"I don't know what to do either. I am being
completely honest when I say I really have been busy.
I get home I'm always tired. I fall asleep at home, I
fall asleep at work and I know it's driving you crazy
as well. I am so stressed out and some of the doctors
are so mean and they add stress to our lives. I
couldn't even stay awake to watch the world cup game
and the only reason I know who won was because my
friend told me. I'm sorry that I got you into this
mess. I am miserable right now. I am so overworked
and I guess in reality I wasn't ready to make these
big life changing steps that I thought I was ready to
take. We can't go on like this...there is no time to
get to know one another but at the same time I don't
blame either you or I. Because I think you did not
know I would be this busy and then you get angry at me
for falling asleep or not calling. I sleep in the
hospital 3-4 times every week. And I feel that even
if I were married this life would be too difficult for
another person to deal with. A wife should be able to
see her husband to get to know him and with this life
there is no time for either person. I know I told you
I would be busy but I didn't know it would be like
this. And I apologize but I think there is too much
heartache and I am in the most difficult and stressful
part of my life right now. I think you feel the same
way when I say we should really reconsider and think
about what we are doing here and if we can carry on
this way. Let me know what you think but I feel very
bad and I have been extremely depressed on top of all
the work that I am doing. I will talk to you soon and
I am sorry that the cards my father brought for me
didn't work. But he said he was sorry about this.
Take care and I hope this reaches you in good health
2006-07-19 01:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Olivia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You hardly know the guy and it sounds like he is rethinking the relationship because of whats going on in his life.
2006-07-19 01:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times are u going to post the same question?????? you've already gotten so many answers , so are u actually asking for advice or are u waiting untill someone says something that u want to hear rather then what you dont want to hear???
Move on.. let go.. if he really wants u , he'll come for u but if not then just go on and find someone that will love u and always be there for you.. but u have to stop asking the same question over and over again ..
2006-07-19 08:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. My reading tells me he can't honor his marriage contract. He feels badly about it but you should not count on him to do what he said he'd do. There is no substitute for investing time to become thoroughly acquainted with a prospective mate.
2006-07-19 08:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him bye, it was nice while it lasted but you have a life to live and live it you are...without him.
2006-07-19 08:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just dumped you (breaking up with you)...doesn't want to marry you anymore, changed his mind, he clearly was avoiding you by telling you he was sleeping...sorry, to tell you but move on, let him go...
2006-07-19 09:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Madina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋