well as I said before it is about 2 men and me . One is my ex boyfriend and I've been 3 years with him, the other one is my boyfriend now and we are nearly 6 months together. I love my ex but he I dont know if he feel the same for me. My boyfriend now , I know that he loves me but I dont. He is nice to me and so dear to me but thats not love is it?I can not be with both of them . Ibroke up with my ex nearly 3 years ago. I realy dont know what to do?? Please help.And another thing is that not one of them is talking about wedding bells and so on. I am so confused . HELP!!!
2006-07-19 01:21:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is what I am hearing from you - You love your ex but don't know if he loves you. Your boyfriend loves you but you don't know if he does. Ask yourself why you broke up with the ex, only you know that. Which one is nicer to you and more considerate of your feelings. Don't keep on going back and forth, back and forth. You will end up with none of them if you do. Choose the one that you love the most if he loves you back. Only you know the true answer.
2006-07-19 01:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are punishing yourself with the current boyfriend and its not fair because he loves you and you are in love with your ex. Please be free and tell him you need to be alone. The reason why that guy is your ex boyfriend is because things did not work out so i dont see a point for you to go back to him, you dont even know if he still love you which means he has moved on, thats why you cant know if he feels the same way. Atleast with the new boy you know how he feels about you,but it cannot work if you dont feel the same way.
2006-07-19 08:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Nicegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll , tell me one thing why do you love your ex and if you do love him you wouldnt call him as your ex and you would never find solace in your current boyfriend .. am i right ? and what was the reason tht you broke of with him you love him so much so from my perspective no reason big or small should matter in a relationship.. if he loved you he wouldnt even break you off from his life .. and the next thing about the wedding bells have you ever asked both of your men bout gettting married your afraid to lose them both thts mui assumption i feel that you should stick to your current boyfriend because as you say he loves you and should ask him bout getting married .. its simple as that
Rock In Peace
Insane
2006-07-19 08:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for your current boyfriend in my opinion dont be with him if you dont have a special connection. i know people that worship their partners are tempting to keep because there arent many about but if you feel anything for him and still you dont love him i think you should let him go. he would appreciate your honesty.
depending on how much you feel for your ex the first step is finding out how he feels about you and if he'd consider getting back with you. if you broke up with him he might have already gone through the healing process and has learned to re adjust his feelings for you but if you think that the relationship you shared was important to him theres still a chance between the both of you.
the bottom line is normally people ask these types of questions requiring advice even when they know deep down what should be done. use your intuition to sort out your problem. hope it works out
2006-07-20 01:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by lickdatramp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go back with the ex, accept that it is over. If it didnt work the first time round, chances are it will never work. As for boyfriend now, if he treats you right, then stay together, and see how things go. But if you are sure you dont love him, then its best to end it, and move on.
2006-07-19 12:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your ex why did you broke up with him in the first place
secondly, does your ex have a new girl friend?and finally if you dont like the bloke you are with at least dont waste his time.maybe he will be talking about wedding bells but he feels that you love someone else.maybe you should give him a chance and leave the past into the past.
2006-07-19 08:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by MORTİCİA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this trouble some time ago, so I dumped them both and went down the local cottage and found a new one, and when I got fed up with him I got another one over the Heath
2006-07-19 08:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you focus on being you.be honest to the new boyfriend and tell him you don't feel the same as he does and there is a reason your ex is your ex.......you seem a little drama queenish. you need to be alone and findout where you really want in a longterm relationship. quit the drama
2006-07-19 08:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably a reason why your ex IS your ex. If you're still in love with him you aren't being fair to your current boyfriend.
2006-07-19 08:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by mypurdy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a start if u don't want to be with your current bf then leave him its not fair on him especially if hes talking about marrige and stuff. second do u really need to be with anybody? why don't u just take some time to chill and be yourself without a man find out about yourself and what u really want in life.
2006-07-19 09:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋