For the ladies?

Question

So I now have this question.
Ladies if you had a nice sized two story house, a car that was less than four years old, a husband who thought the world of you, and two children. Would you screw that up for a piece of a$$ ?
I think that having a care free life affords people to become complacent and not be thankful for what they have.

Please read the Am I to Blame? question on my profile before you answer.

Thank you to all who provide feed back.

Answer 1

I think your wife is nuts. Want a new one? :) I looked at your 360 page, you are a good looking guy, and if you are the husband you describe yourself to be your wife must be completely insane.

Answer 2

If I had a husband who worked his @$$ off to get me everything he felt I deserved and was sure to show me that I mean the world to him then I don't think I would screw that up for anything in the world. Especially if he was a soldier. Is she a stay-at-home mom?? Thats where a lot of problems start when women are at home and the kids are getting older, things start getting boring. If she is, convince her to join a stay-at-home moms support group or go to a gym that allows kids or something to keep her distracted. If shes not, then I don't know what to tell u. Some women have commitment issues just like men do. They just don't like to admit it sometimes. If she wants to screw it up (and this may sound harsh) but all u can do is let her go, get on with your life and find someone who will appreciate all that u do for them, all the time. Best of luck :)

Answer 3

Even if I had a small apartment and an 8 year old car, a husband that loved me and no kids, I STILL wouldn't screw it up for a piece of a$$. Marriage is a sacred union between two people....it's a lifelong commitment I knew the day I took my vows.....if I wasn't mature enough to stand by my vows, I wouldn't have been mature enough to get married.

Answer 4

First of all: Do you really want to be married to someone who you don't trust? No trust, no respect, no marriage!
2nd: Maybe something is missing. I can't tell you why ppl cheat but they do. My advice is this (since there are children involved)
It is time to move on. ( I'm sorry) but try not to make it a messy divorce and try to still be social, it is much easier on the children.
I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

No piece of *** on the outside is worth losing anything over. That's just what's wrong with people, they take things for granted and become very selfish and think everything is about them.

Answer 6

Material items cannot buy love, the reason a woman looks outside of a marriage is b/c something is missing inside of it.

Answer 7

No i wouldn't throw all that for something not worthwhile. Yes carefree life does that to you especially if you weren't brought up right or a spoilt brat. She married you for your money and now its not enough and she wants out.

Sorry dude.

Answer 8

Has any man you know ever had an affair when he still loved his wife? This should answer part of your question. The second part of the question is "Are you really so much better than your wife?" If u are please let her out of the relationship.

Answer 9

Sometimes, its not a case of what she HAS, but what she WANTS. And she wants sex, dude.

Personally, I won't screw my wonderful life for that. She's crazy. But I think this is something you cannot repair.

Let her go. Somebody who can't appreciate you is not worth it.

Answer 10

Heck no I would screw that up.
For one, it shows that she isn't capable of real commitment.
Second, she obviously isn't cut out to be a military wife. And that sucks since you guys are risking your lives to protect our freedom. (Thank You!)