Have you ever lost someone very close to you and what is your favorite memory of them?

Question

I don't want to make anyone upset with this question. I was sitting here watching videos earlier tonight and there is so much death and injury on the internet, I started to think about my daughter and wife sleeping in the other room. I thought about how I would feel if they were to die and I felt crushed and I almost couldn't breathe. Think it was a mild panic attack. I calmed myself down by thinking about tomorrow and all the fun I'll have with my family.(No work tomorrow) I have plenty of time to make many happy memories. Once again, I don't want to upset anyone with this question, and my condolences for your lost loved ones.

Answer 1

i lost one of my best friends ever may 2005.

my grand dad. (f)

there isn't one day that i don't think about him, i love him so much and i miss him so much more n more every day. i have plenty of friends and i know no body who had the kind of relationship i had with my grand dad. i am not his only grandchild, he had 4 more. plus he had 4 kids, all married but i must say that he had special love n care for each and every one of us.

ive got too many favorite memories of him which i will always keep as a treasure in my heart.

but my last one was when it was mother's day and we went to eat out for lunch. the day before i went out clubbing and when i woke up in the morning i was so sick (not a hang over). i wrote my dad an sms to tell him that i wont gonna make it for lunch but then something told me to erase the message and go. so i got out of the bed, took a cold shower and went.

the lunch turned out to be very nice. my sis and i told everyone bye and went into my car. as i was driving by i honked my horn and we waved at them as they were all outside ... then i told my sister ...

''look at grand dad waving at us, his face looks like it's the last time he's gonna see us'' .....

(you know when ure not about to see somebody for a long time you wave in a certain way ... thats wot he did)

... and that's what it was .... the next two days my grand dad had a stroke, went to hospital and passed away after a week.

as simply as that. he had turned 80 a month before but he was still as solid as a rock !!!!!!

no matter how old ppl get you never want your loved ones to die ...

i can never forget that wave .... and i never will ... and the only thing you can do is live the memories within you, and never let them die.

i have a baby on it's way now ... and i know for sure it will carry my grand dads name somehow (smile)

Hope you have many happy days with your family, take care of them xxxx

Answer 2

I lost my father three years ago. He was very sick with cancer for four years, but I always believed he would get better. I don't know, I guess I was in denial. I was always daddy little girl and I can remember him sitting with me on the couch watching tv shows like Dukes of Hazzard and Miami Vice, just because I liked them. He didn't care for those shows at all, but that didn't matter to him. I just miss hearing his voice and knowing he is there. Is is very hard to lose someone you love, cherish the moments you have with them now.

Answer 3

My little brother, he was 17 and killed by a drunk driver the night before Thanksgiving in 2004. I miss him so much. When I lost him I lost my brother but also my best friend. I could share anything with him. I still talk to him sometimes when I feel alone because I know he is listening I just can't see him like before. Cherish your family! Love and protect them everyday that God blesses you with them.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

My grandfather was such an admirable man and I miss him greatly. I miss the talks that we'd have and the produce from his garden.

Answer 6

yeah my granpa.i do have all sweet memories of him.he was very close to me.and i was too.he was my best friend then and even now.ofcourse i feel bad some times.but he is always with me.

Answer 7

yes, and I what I remember most vividly about her is that she used to say "contrary to popular opinion" an awful lot.
And the great times we had together, of course.

Answer 8

my niece...she died couple of years ago...i love her so much...when she's in her elementary days,i used to be with her sending her to school...taking her after class!!!but suddenly,she was gone 4just an hour!!!im alright now...i used to accept the truth that she's in heaven now!!!

Answer 9

my best frenz that i used to hang out with i miss the jokes and thier laughter

Answer 10

my grandma my favorite or most memorable memory is she cooking breakfast for me and telling me to sit and talk to her about my life