why guys alwys want to put it in a*nal insted of it is pinful?

Answer 1

get a good persone insted of the anemal that u have

Answer 2

This question could be answered in many different ways. First of all, unless the girl is very accustomed to anal then the guy should always be knowledgeable that it's painful. Pain can be controlled somewhat by excessive lubrication and if someone isn't wanting to use lube then get a cucumber or banana and say bend over and lets see how you like it. Actually men tend to like anal for several reasons. Many say it's much tighter and therefore is almost like having a virgin again. Also it's not possible for a girl to get pregnant with anal sex. What should be considered though is you are much more likely to bleed with anal sex and HIV/AIDS is much easier to contract with anal. Other times it's just a mental thing with guys that they like it better some just prefer that close fit or rear entry. Regardless of why they like it if you are going to do it then much preparation should be considered and have ample lubricant on hand and not Vaseline but the extra slippery stuff like Astro Glide or KY Jelly. From your perspective though, if your lover cares then he should respect your feelings and if you don't like it then there is so much more pleasure to be had and intimacy that he should understand. Like I said .. grab you a similar sized device and ask him to try it and maybe he will see how you FEEL about it.

Answer 3

They are homosexuals who have not come to terms with their own homosexuality. You must get self-respect and stop letting this happen to your body now. The man will dump you in the end for a GUY anyway, so why put up with this crap. Go find a straight male, especially if you want kids with him. Don't waste the few good dating years you have. The older you are the harder it will be to find someone you can actually be happy with.

I hope your 'gay friend' comes out of the closet soon. This is 2006 you know. Leave him. Let him find himself.

Answer 4

because they think they're all porn stars - having never experience being on the recieving (or even giving) side of that I could only imagine for the inexperienced that yeah it's got to be pretty painful. But some girls get into and enjoy the pain. Sorry, but the anus is an output not an input.

Answer 5

Cause its kinky. There is also a forbiddenness which makes the rear-door very tempting.
As such, its a very exciting variation to your repoitiere; but (and a very important but) only with a willing partner. The man has the right to make the right vibes and excitement for his partner, but there should not be any pressure on her.

Statistically, there are a lot girls who find anal very exciting ! And yes, men liking anal (in fact, is there any who hasnt fantasized it?) has nothing to do with gay tendencies.

Answer 6

Some women are nice and don't mind they say its just uncomfortable but they don't mind. some actually enjoy the sensation perhaps you need a better technique.

Oh and the idiot person that says its gay tendency is wrong it has nothing to do with being gay

Answer 7

Maybe it has to do with the fact not that many butts are having baby’s

Answer 8

i love both but prefer the p*ssy guess you like it there to better got a pic

Answer 9

FCUK any guy that want to do that to me.
make a small hole in the wall, and let him drink his piss.

Answer 10

it is usually tighter that way and it is "taboo". i don't personally know if it is painful. past partners liked it that way.