i have a real bad problem of being shy around people i have never met before and i would really like to get rid of it.
2006-07-18 20:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by Clover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
remember this, shyness, jitters, anxiety is nothing more than an obstacle. hurdle it in a manner you feel would suit you. be yourself, show that you matter and you exist. else you wither out in the cold. there's a world full of people who are no different with you, thus bridge your connection to them. reach out... just like when you started your education, how did you manage to gain friends? how did you manage to talk to your neighbor? take the step and move forward. no one would get hurt in the process of words, okay?
Hi, I'm Verdugo... Nice to make your acquaintance..... Smile... And you, may i have the privilege of knowing your name?....
2006-07-18 21:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by VeRDuGo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First be positive and attempt this by technique of accepting who you're and refuse to modify for absolutely everyone. next rigidity your self to be better outgoing and once you've a terror that some thing undesirable will in case you do(no longer bodily undesirable yet better like getting embarrassed or some thing) purely say to your self those 4 words that helped me lots, who the f*ck cares. After awhile you'll change right into a lot less and a lot less shy.
2016-12-01 21:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by estepp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Once you do something enough, you'll eventually get good at it. You start to notice patterns, and with every interaction you improve. Try it! Just say "hi" to random people on the street or ask them for the time. Go into a store and ask someone to help you find something.
2006-07-18 20:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is a reflection of low self esteem. So the reason probably to your shyness your lack of self confidence.
My advice is to fight it off by knowing more and loving yourself. Be proud of who you are and what you can do.
You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. So there's no need to be shy about yourself.
God bless!
2006-07-18 20:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i am that way too but just be yourself....it may sound lame but if people can't like you for you then forget about them.....there are billions of people out there and if you make the wrong impression on them.. thats there problem not yours...life isn't any fun if you go through life being shy
2006-07-18 20:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Don't Mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that way but if you think about it no ones gonna do anything to you, there just normal people like you. Try surrounding yourself with more people and maybe youll get used to it
2006-07-18 20:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by jodi_howard03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say to yourself that everyone puts there pants on the same way,everyone gets out of bed the same way,unless you role out of bed alot,lol,
no one person is greater or more valuable than another,some might be richer or act like they are better,but they are only fooling themselves
2006-07-18 20:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i am really out going and i have a lot of friends if u want to talk or nething instant message me at daddygirl310@yahoo.com
ill try and help u out
2006-07-18 20:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by daddygirl310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋