Whomever gives the most advices will win the 10 points...Good Luck..
2006-07-18 20:25:45 · 10 answers · asked by topnotchcouple 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When you can look at a guy and say "Whoa! He's HOTT! What I'd like to do to him!"
When you can look at a girl and say "Whoa! She's FINE! What I'd like to do to her!"
AND in both instances you've got to mean it. You will probably find different things attractive about them (and I don't just mean the obvious physical differences, lol!).
You anticipate and enjoy having sex with either gender, although you may fulfil different needs by being with one gender than another (e.g. women: soft, supple, subtle, receptive, emotional...men: hard, aggressive, forceful, strong...)
In a world where we pair off in relationships, you don't care about the gender - just the person. You're prepared to devote yourself to them and ignore those desires you have for the other gender.
Or you find yourself in a polyamorous situation, where you are fortunate to find like-minded people (of different genders), with who you form a stable (if unconventional) relationship.
A simple test below (too simple IMHO) may give you some pointers about where you fall in the range of sexual orientation.
In the end, it doesn't matter what you are as long as you're comfortable with it, the person(s) you do it with is/are consenting and that you both/all derive pleasure from being with each other.
Happy discovery!
2006-07-18 21:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition. The loose version is that if you are attracted to both sexes you are "bi". But then there are those who are attracted to one sex physically but the other mentally, or is attracted to one, but would only date the other. I consider myself to be bisexual but I still lean more towards guys. However, I am still attracted to some girls and haven't crossed out getting married and whatnot, but when I fantasize I would like a boyfriend for a lover. No matter which I am with, I will consider myself bi. Some say bisexuals are just gay people in transition, and that may be true for some, but not for me personally. So it is complicated.
2006-07-19 05:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by dnnzak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, time will tell. Many gays go through a period where they tell themselves they are bisexual. So, Even if you choose to settle down with a man for the rest of your life, if on that last day of your life, you are still thinking about breasts, vaginas and penises, then you are bisexual.
2006-07-18 20:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you quite are bisexual, and also you'll not in any respect evaluate starting off a relationship with yet another lady because you're nevertheless infatuated with this lady out of your previous. possibly sometime contained in the destiny you'll meet yet another brilliant lady, or you may have a effective relationship which include her.
2016-11-06 19:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by valderrama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are truly bisexual when you are dumb enough to believe that having sex with someone who is the opposite sex of your current partner isn't cheating! (The big reason why I don't date bi!)
*sigh*...some questions are just so pathetic...first you want to find a woman for a threesome...then you start questioning your sexuality...I think you need to sit down and really think about what is important to you!
2006-07-19 02:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know all humans are bisexual, and most don't choose to recognize it, and so you just know you are attracted to both, but some people are attracted to one more over the other. But they have that attraction, it is just something you know. just as people know that they only want to be with one sex, it just happens.
2006-07-18 20:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by nbrungardt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have strong feeling for both sexes and feel that you are happy to be with either of them. Also yo have deep desirs to have sex with both at the same time but also want to be in a seios relationship with both sexes at the same time..
and hope that they share the same feeling towards you
2006-07-18 20:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by gwad_is_a_myth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Link about "coming out" as bisexual from the Human Rights Campaign: http://www.hrc.org/Content/NavigationMenu/Coming_Out/Get_Informed4/Coming_Out_as_Bi/Coming_Out_as_Bisexual.htm
Link for "I think I'm bi... what do I do now?": http://www.bicommunitynews.co.uk/
2006-07-19 09:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mallary says its just a gut feeling. I think it's more like a butt feeling.
2006-07-18 20:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by jozfviktor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess its just a gut feeling or the way you feel around certain people either male female or both
2006-07-18 20:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋