I cant sleep?

Question

I cant stop thinking about my mothers death. It was to much! and she sufferd and I was there with her. I can under stand my gramparents passing on at my age I am 13 But my mother! I and my sistor lost her and a hole lot more! we live with my dad but we cant ever see our pets or our old house anymore the man that was living with her is locking us out. no its not my dad. what can I do to crear my head or am I to lost to be saved?Is there any won els going through the same thing?

Answer 1

plz accept my condolence and see even i know how it feels but if a person is lost u have to keep on going if u have lotta issue u gotta make sure that u have to keep going and if u cant sleep this is wat i do
dont thinkl any topic while sleeping cuz thats wat keeps u awake and clear yur mind and take very deep breath and in 5 mins i m sure u will be asleep and also again dont think nething or else u will not be able to sleep and the other thing is if u have bf try to go out cuz u wont live with someone death and keep urself killing by remebering every moment but once in a while is good and if u want to spend time go out wid frenz and if u want u can mail me and we will keep on mailing wach other which will keep u busy and have fun njoi the life to fulest leave the things behind which r gone....but dont forget them
take care
bye
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Answer 2

Bless your heart honey i feel for you i had a grandmother die not long ago who i looked at like a mother she was everything to me when she died i knew i lost someone who really loved me and it hurt bad and her other family members took everything i didnt even get a oicture and i was suppose to get everything but she didnt make a will and the family went to fighting over all her stuff it was a up roar i just said they could have it all she isnt here anymore and she is the only thing i wanted and i wanted her more than her stuff!!Its hard and im very sorry for your loss in time your pain will heal be around people u love and people who love you back and things will be better.Pray and things will happen i wish you the best good luck in your life and just take it one day at a time

Answer 3

That's very sad. You need to take some time off school and get things settled speak with family friends and perhaps talk to a teacher or something at school like a councilor. In time you will feel better but that will take a long time. Just slow down for a while and try to get as much help as you need. This will affect everything if you let it get to far I would suggest talking to a councilor at school or some where else. You are young so this is not your fault and there is not much you can do. I hope everything gets better.

Answer 4

You are going through a grieving process right now. If you can't sleep, don't force it. Your heart hurts because you have suffered a terrible loss on two counts 1) your mother and 2) your old house. Getting enough sleep is the least of your worries.

I am so very sorry for your loss, and I truly wish I could say something to help lessen the pain you are going through. Please know that what your are feeling right now is natural and it won't always be this bad. If you are open to spiritual thoughts, there is this booklet I read called "When Someone You Love Dies." (from Jehovah's Witnesses) A friend of mine died suddenly from bone cancer, but he didn't tell me he had cancer, and that booklet actually made me feel better. Maybe you could ask your dad to get it for you somehow, or when they come by your door you can ask for it.

I am very sorry for your loss, and I offer you my condolences.

Answer 5

I did, and it is a hard road to travel. You will make it just like I did and billions of others have. It is a terrible thing for anyone to go through and my heart goes out to you. I'm sure you've heard it before but I will tell you again. Your Mom hasn't a problem in the world right now. You are the one stuck with the sorrow. Your Mom had her time here and now it's yours. I am sure she would want you to make the best of it and survive. Grieve for your Mom as you should. If you keep her in your mind and memories she can never die. She lives on in you, for you are your mother. This is her way of remaining immortal. Through you. Reach inside of yourself and draw from her strength, she is waiting there for you.

In time, things will get better, I promise. I wish you and your sister the best and I am truly sorry for your loss.
Take care Sweetie.
Glenn

Answer 6

I don't think you need to seek therapy. Therapist try to get you to rush through a process that requires time. You need to mourn. There are ways to help ease the hurt. Try writing or some type of artwork. I sympathize for you and your loss, and think it's really foul that the man she was living with won't allow you to be around the house or your pets. Hey, I don't know if she was staying in his house or if the pets were something that they acquired together, but if they weren't married and they were just her belongings, her children have the rights to all of that.

Answer 7

I am sorry you lost your mother...and no you are not too lost to be saved...
I am not going to lie to you ...it is going to take a great deal to get over the death of your mom...But you need to be strong...For your sister and your dad and anyone else that was close to your mom including yourself....
Pray for the man that has locked you out...Go to church and speak with your minister, this will help you alot...Get involved in things and most of all do things that would make your mother proud because she will be watching you to make sure you are alright...

Answer 8

sometimes bad things happen to people and there is no reason and there is nothing good that can come out of it , your dad would have been happy for you to love him as your dad , but wouldn't want you to be sad for his passing . Who ever says times heals is wrong , the pain never dulls .bit with time you will get stronger put one foot in front of the other and keep going .You have a lot of life in front of you and your dad wouldn't want his death to stop you from living your life . He will always be in your heart ,

Answer 9

i hade a death in mi family when i was young the only thing i can say is im sorry for ur lose and the best way to recover is to just cry it helps more than u think and ur house and all that u should call the cops and get ur stuff out of there from that guy

i hope u feel better if u ever need to talk instant message me at [e-mail]
my name is courtney

Answer 10

I'm 21 and lost my dad 4 years ago. Took a long time to get over it. The man that lived with your mom should let you in - it should help with closure issues. Why won't he? Does he have another woman already in that house? Get your dad to speak to him about letting you in.