I met someone who I really like and now I am wondering about getting married..I like this person but I am in love with my fiancee. This person is stable finacially and my finacee is not. I know this should not matter..but we have a chemistry...I am sooo confused!!! What should I do??/
2006-07-18 19:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by jojekier 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obvioulsly, you are not trying to marry your fiance for money....this can only mean you REALLY love him. So...marry him! You feel that you have chemistry with this other person, when really it is only your brain TELLING you, that you do. You are having last minute jitters. It will all be okay. As for the "other person", it would be unwise to continue seeing them, as they will only complicate your relationship with your fiance! Follow your heart, not your hormones. Good luck and remember...if you really love your fiance, you will do anything to avoid HURTING him!
2006-07-18 20:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by pink_phish22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you love your fiancee and you are commited you need to think of the bottom line of each story if you go for this other guy and your realationship mightin work and you may have lost your fiancee FOREVER but you could get with this other guy have a fling and find out its not goin to go the way you thort and you wont have your fiancee you need to think what you want and how the guy you picked and yourself will be better off
2006-07-18 20:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by ditsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you are truly in love with someone, you don't even consider being with someone else...unless you are afraid of the lifelong commitment, which can make you do crazy things. Take some time and think things over...analyze your feelings for each. There may be ulterior motive behind your feelings that you never took the time to consider.
2006-07-18 19:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by benjilove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself first: Do you really love your fiancee? if you do, why is it you are thinking that there is someone you have chemistry with or your soulmate? If you are unsure abt your feelings abt your bf, don't let the wedding to happen, or else you will suffer.
2006-07-18 19:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... I totally understand ur confusion. but if u have made up ur mind about getting married to ur fiance, go ahead. such temptations happen and the more so - just before the wedding!
2006-07-18 19:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a cool place, take a cold drink sip it and take a deep breath, close your eyes and listen to your heart, when get the answer open your eyes and act firm.
2006-07-18 19:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by ilyas h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are not ready for marriage. Hold off the wedding date as you need to decide what you want and what willl make you happy.
2006-07-18 19:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch your fiancee.
having doubts in your mind is not a good time to marry.
2006-07-18 19:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋