Ummm...well there is this guy I'm like totally in love with, and he likes me back. we have even kissed. We go to the same school, but he is in the grade up from me. We are the same age. (he's young in his grade...I'm old in mine) I mean I think the grade thing freaks him out a bit. I cheer for his football team and we ride the same bus, but I'm afraid about when his friends get to him. Will he dump me?? What would you do???
2006-07-18 19:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by HOll4907 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i am not saying what grade i'm in, but who said I wasn't 16 yet??
2006-07-19 05:32:07 · update #1
it's one of those summer things that i want to work out!!!!!! Idk how many of his friends know??
2006-07-19 05:32:58 · update #2
If u like me and i like u, then i wouldn't dump u for anything...
Besides, atleast to me, the grade thing is crap, and is just a number, and so is age..
Talk to him, convince him that being in two diff standards is immaterial and hence should not be a deciding factor in ur relationship..
All the best.. i hope ur romance comes thru...
2006-07-18 19:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about him too much. Yr only young. I was only 16 when i met a guy i really liked. Had a baby at 18, Married at 20 then divorced 2 yrs later. After that i met a nice guy or so i thought , only to have him cheat on me! Now i have two children, am 30 and not happy. If only i could go back to my younger years i would have fun and not get hung up on some guy. Live each day to the fullest coz for me and the many others out there like me its way too late!
2006-07-19 02:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by jodiiburns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is a junior where as i am a sophmore... he is almost 17 and i am 15... i really dont think age is that BIG of a deal... some people do tho. If you feel like he is too old and dont feel comfortable with him being older or if he doesnt then you should wait.... maybe just be friends for a while..... try talking to him and telling him how you feel about it..
Best of luck to you!
2006-07-19 02:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bitsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry time will heal everything & you will be fine. Don't bother about his friends. They will make everybodies life worse anyway you think / Do. Enjoy all the things anyone would do in a relationship. Go ahead. Have a ball of a time.
2006-07-19 02:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by bn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date him, and if he dumps you then he didn't really like you in the first place. The other option would be to move on and forget him. It depends on if you want to take the chance of getting hurt. It's really up to you!
2006-07-19 02:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by KMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you're 16 to date anyone and just hang out with groups until then. You'll probably both be more comfortable.
2006-07-19 02:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by curiousfurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you then he won't care what his friends think. If he dumps you because of what his friends think and say then it's his loss and he's not worth your time.
2006-07-19 02:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by mrs d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dumped you because of what his friends say ,then he didn't deserve you from the first place.
2006-07-19 02:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you know Peer presure from FRIENDS can be hard.
But, if he REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY. likes you.
He'll keep on seeing you.
2006-07-19 02:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋