Senior Year?

Question

Ok.. It's obvious that I'll be a Senior in August. Well I do have a boyfriend, I see him on Saturdays and thats it...I really do Love him and he treats me like a queen. Except for the fact he comes from a poor family, he did have a job but got fired from it! I just feel sorry for him but Im not even forsure if he's going to college this year and he rarely has any money :( I dont know if I should break up with him or just give it time? I'm just afriad of being alone I guess or that I wont find anyone like him (except of the money issue). But this year I want to have fun! I know i could have fun with my boyfriend but I feel like I shouldnt have to support him (I dont all the time, just sometimes) Any of you ever been in this situation, please I would love to hear some great advise! ahhh I'm so confused!

Answer 1

I don't think finances should be a factor in your breaking up with him. You're seniors in high school for god sakes! That just seems very shallow to me, forgive me if I'm wrong. You obviously want something other than love from a relationship. Do him a favor and break up with him.

Answer 2

Finances should never be a factor in breaking it off with someone. Maybe you should question whether or not you really love him or you loved the fact that he had money before and now that he doesn't it just doesn't seem as good. If this is someone you truly do love and care about and want to be with you will make it work, even if that means not giving him money because then he'll get the hint that he needs a job to support himself. If you still aren't sure of the situation then maybe you guys just need a break. Just follow your heart, it can never lead you in the wrong direction.

Answer 3

if he treats u good and ur heart is in it 100% then stick with him until he proves you wrong. Love has nothing to do with money. Money is considered the root of all evil. Noramlly people who have money,think money is everything and that you should be with someone who comes from the same social stature as yourself. Im goin through this right now,well kinda. My boyfriend is wonderful,has a job.He wont except money from his parents he believes that he should learn the value of a dollar and not have everything handed to him. at first i thought he was just broke,because we would never go anywhere,and when we did,i would foot the bill. But come to find out,he's saving all his money.for what?i dont know. but i stuck wit him and now we are engaged,and about to move into our own house. Just give him a chance.,if he's not showing that he wants to better himself,and your heart isnt in it,then find someone new. but just dont break up with him because he's financially unstable..
just follow ur heart.and not his wallet./

Answer 4

Well for one thing if he treats you like a queen i'd definetly keep him. Who cares if he is poor that shouldn't matter all that matters is if you love him. If you love him then stay with him. You don't have to support him all the time but sometimes a home cooked meal would problay be great. If he don't go to college this year it is fine he has his whole life to do what he wants when he is ready. If you don't love him then there is no sence of staying with him. My opinion is he should go apply for welfare and hood and get into his own place that is hood approved. Talk to him about it and see what happens,

Answer 5

There are several ways you guys can do things while spending little to no money. If you don't want to support him and give him money that is fine. His family could at least try to get better paying jobs and perhaps manage their money better, and your boyfriend could always get another job. If you want to break up with him you can but you should look past the money issue. Money is not everything and does not buy happiness.

Answer 6

The important question is do you love him? I didnt married for money, I married my high school sweetheart. He came from a family poorer then me but I cared about what was in his heart , not his wallet. We have been together for 15 years, married for 12 and he is the sweetest man in the world. He cares for me like noone else. So you have to ask yourself if he makes you happy, is he your best friend? Those are the things that make a good marriage, not money. Now that he an adult , he make good money and supports his family. If I were ask if I would do it all again, I would do it in a heartbeat. He is my soulmate, and that you cannot buy.

Answer 7

I have been with my guy for the past 4 years and he comes from a kind of poor family. He doesn't have that great of a job and rarely has any money whatsoever, but he is trying to change his life so maybe this guy is trying to change his. Just give your man a chance something wonerful might come from it. That is just my point of view.

Answer 8

Don't stay with someone who is going no where in life!! You could find someone you love just as much who could support you (or help you out along the way) later in life! This is your senior year its SERIOUSLY time to start thinking about your FUTURE.....AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (COLLEGE, ETC) Do whatever you need to do NOW, I wish I would've done it all earlier....you will thank yourself if you do!

Answer 9

Don't be confused. I'd wait to see if he'll go to college and do something with his life. I had to learn that the hard way. But you know just wait on him if you don't want to that's your heart follow it to make the right choices in life.

Answer 10

why is being poor such a bad thing? he treats you right and you love each other, that should be all you ever need. you sound really shallow, and greedy asking such a stupid, immature question